Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Southern california
Re: Just confonted her-she wants ME to move out!
You need to kick her out of the marital bedroom, and put her and all her clothes, and sundries, in a small room somewhere in your house---and you NEVER leave for any REASON---that house is just as much yours as hers!!!!!!
Tell her as of now, she is responsible for paying for HALF of each and every bill, you have monthly---that includes, mtg, if there is one, all insurance payments, car payments, and upkeep---utilities, and any other necessaries, if she needs money for her own living necessities---give her the "want ads", and tell her to get a job---you are not gonna finance, her cushy lifestyle ONE DAY LONGER
Give her no money whatsoever, cancel all CC's with her name, on them---put bank acct, in your name only, same with savings acct.
Carry your VAR, with you at all times---and just plain go DARK on her
Give her a very large dose of REALITY---I am willing to bet, her lover is gone real quick, when he finds out he is gonna have to take care of your so called wife-------when she comes running back---stay DARK on her---give her a taste of what life will be like on her own, in an apt., working for a living----she ain't gonna like it one bit--------make sure her cushy lifestyle as she knows it---IS OVER---she will wake up real quick!!!!!!