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post #76 of 579 (permalink) Old 10-25-2012, 10:57 PM
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But it WAS him - and that's who I took care of.

'Sometimes you have to fight when you're a man.' - Kenny Rogers, 'The Coward of the County'
Oh count the other one you gotta know when to hold em know when to fold em. I won't mention Billy Ray Cyrus though I know you love him

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Oh count the other one you gotta know when to hold em know when to fold em. I won't mention Billy Ray Cyrus though I know you love him
Thanks Tom. I owe you one. I can't believe you mentioned that song right before my bedtime.

HEY MACARENA!!

And with that, I'm going to watch sexy Lucy Liu in Sherlock Holmes. Good night.
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But it WAS him - and that's who I took care of.

'Sometimes you have to fight when you're a man.' - Kenny Rogers, 'The Coward of the County'
Thats fine, sorry to sidetrack. Some blame it all on the OM instead of their cheating spouse, thats all I was trying to convey. I do not think the OP is in that frame of mind though.
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Thanks Tom. I owe you one. I can't believe you mentioned that song right before my bedtime.

HEY MACARENA!!

And with that, I'm going to watch sexy Lucy Liu in Sherlock Holmes. Good night.
Oh God they played that at my sisters first wedding
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hey doc, keep a eye on your credit report..just cause you canceled those cc cards, dont mean she won't open more in your name.
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Hey Doc

I am serious about dropping her crap off.

It sends a clear signal to her that you are letting her go.

It also lets the OM know she will be going there. The OM has to decide if the Affair was a fling or if he has to now man up for his new GF who is still legally married. Hence more complications to his life.

Now his free piece of @ss (your wife) comes with a price. His freedom and bachelor lifestyle banging multiple chicks with very little commitment is over......

Stay tough. Enjoy your weekend away. Let your attorney work his magic and start to let your wife feel the consequences of her crappy actions.

Most of all keep your head and stay calm.

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wouldn't it be funny if one of his other girlfriends found the bag of clothes first.
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Re: Just confonted her-she wants ME to move out!

Greatly like me, you need to plan to expose it to her/your families and mutual friends to show that the dissolution of your marriage was in no way your fault.

Since you'll be in litigation soon, your attorney could use that info as leverage against her say in a community property setting. But ultimately, it will be in your best interest to "release" copies of that damning information against her to the family to firmly put her in her place to ardently show that, not only she was a poster girl adulteress, but also a liar of the highest magnitude!

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I emailed them and said he might want to check on his security clearance at work this morning.....that the military takes a dim view of adultery.....
Then I watched their cellphones blow up......LMFAO!!
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I emailed them and said he might want to check on his security clearance at work this morning.....that the military takes a dim view of adultery.....
Then I watched their cellphones blow up......LMFAO!!
Not much you can actually do in that realm.

Not sure exactly what you did or said, but it's unlikely they will pull it. But being known at work as a philanderer.

Well. I worked in the military (not in any REAL high security capacity, for all my Top Security clearance). We had two gents there who screwed everything that moved and nudged it with their feet first just to make sure.

They did this for a long time and nothing happened to them.

It was only when one of the guys BLATANTLY canoodled with another woman during a deployment (and didn't work a lick...duing a WAR SITUATION) that he got sidelined and his career ruined.

The other, well the only blowback he faced was with me. Another guy asked when my wife was going to visit one of the familly events with me again (She is attractive) and I said: "Not while BLANK is still here."

He heard me. He was a friend of mine. He was hurt. He should have been.

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I just figured a nice email to the head of his HR at BAE cc'd to the CEO couldn't hurt.....it's a small town
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I just figured a nice email to the head of his HR at BAE cc'd to the CEO couldn't hurt.....it's a small town
Certainly not. Even if it does not impact his career, it hurts his projected persona. And any pain a philanderer feels makes angels laugh.
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Post both of them on cheaterville.com
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Post both of them on cheaterville.com

Yes, cheaterville.com with proof -- that substantially adds more weight.

Also, you need to make sure you have a copy of your evidence off-site somewhere safe and secure.
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Yes, cheaterville.com with proof -- that substantially adds more weight.

Also, you need to make sure you have a copy of your evidence off-site somewhere safe and secure.
Then you could send them the link and see their phones blow up again
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