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Then you could send them the link and see their phones blow up again


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I just figured a nice email to the head of his HR at BAE cc'd to the CEO couldn't hurt.....it's a small town
Awesome Doc.

2 cheating imbeciles. I love it.

Keep up the pressure.
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one final item on bucket list...when i get back in town i am gonna take the advice on dump her clothes at his condo...with the note

Then I am done

Guys out there, its been a whirlwind week but just do it....trust your gut..if you think she is cheating then she probably is....do your homework
Then follow the advice here. You will get the peace you crave. Don't take any crap from these women
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Good job so far keep a var on you when you are aroundher keep us updated
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One funny note...right after I first figured out who he was...I sent him a friend request on FB and watched her cellphone blowup...LMAO!!

hahaha!
i did this too on d day.
first i sent his wife one, so i could let her know what a POS he was, which i ended up doing through her email that she so conveniently had attached to her public facebook profile. turns out she already knew. but hadnt told me. chickensh!t.
then i sent him one.

i wish i could have seen his face when he saw it.

he never accepted, though. go figure.

flyfishdoc...you are my hero.
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one final item on bucket list...when i get back in town i am gonna take the advice on dump her clothes at his condo...with the note

Then I am done

Guys out there, its been a whirlwind week but just do it....trust your gut..if you think she is cheating then she probably is....do your homework
Then follow the advice here. You will get the peace you crave. Don't take any crap from these women
I agree. Do not take any crap from a cheater! man or woman!
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What a difference a brain and self respect makes. Should we post a link on (censored) thread?
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what evidence do you have on him?
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Phone cell records/texts. Photos of her car at his condo on multiple days. Them on the beach .....
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And best evidence finally.....she tried to explain her friend to my son....said they have so much in common and she JUST HASNT BEEN HAPPY....LMAO my son told her to go f$&@ herself
Told her sister it was MY fault.......I drove her to another....
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Don't forget about us Doc.

I am addicted now.

Gotta know how this turns out.
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And best evidence finally.....she tried to explain her friend to my son....said they have so much in common and she JUST HASNT BEEN HAPPY....LMAO my son told her to go f$&@ herself
Told her sister it was MY fault.......I drove her to another....
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What state do you live in?
Is it a fault or no fault state?

How long do you think her cheating has been going on?
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Just phone call records and pics of her car outside his house might not prove an affair though. Just be aware of that.

And how old is your son ?
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Is this her first time as a cheater?

It might be best to get the kids to volunteer to have DNA tests. This is not necessarily to establish if you are their father, it is another way to emphasise to your WW that she has totally destroyed your trust in her.
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Just phone call records and pics of her car outside his house might not prove an affair though. Just be aware of that.
I understand that in Texas, that just the mere presence of cell phone records involving many calls/texts either "made to," as well as "taken from" a paramour, can well shift the burden of proof in an adultery charge, greatly provided that there is an "at-fault" hearing.

I can't really speak to the other states though!

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