My wife has an emotional affair with other guy
married 9 yrs, 3 kids
my wife is working abroad for 7 months already. our 3 kids is with me. im also working locally.
7 yrs ago, i caught my wife having a textmate with our neighbor, i named him john. we talk about it, she said it was not true and so i forgive her and it went well. and we aggreed not to do it anymore... i trust her and i love her. she blocked john's facebook account and erase his cell numbers. that was 7 years ago.....
when she is now working abroad, we chatted thru facebook as our way of communication. its 7 months already since she was working.
just recently, i got her facebook account password which she gave it to me for maintenance reason on her facebook account.
and there, i found out that she and john is having a sweet chat. i thought they stopped it long time ago. they were chatting about them from the last 7 years. its very clear to me that they were having an affair 7 yrs ago.
a got angry, i told her that i know already, i told her family too. but she keeps denying. i got all the evidence on there chat.
i dont want to loose her. we have plans, our 3 kids. i want to fix our family, but it really hurts when you think what they're doing. its hard to accept for me that nothing happens to them. but i want to move on. i dont want to be hurt for this... i want they will be hurt...
so, i forgive her again. but the pain is still there. few days from the incident i forgive her.
i dont know what to do. it still hurts!!!
i want to file a criminal case to the guy...
can i do that????
i need an advice.....