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post #16 of 25 (permalink) Old 11-23-2012, 03:43 PM
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Re: Signs of a cheating wife...

My wife went from sex every 2 or 3 months to screwing my brains out. Lost weight. Bought sexy clothes and undies but, never wore them around me. Then I found her texting records. She was having a SEXTING affair with a 25 year old man. She is 55! He is also a member of our church and his Dad is a Deacon!
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post #17 of 25 (permalink) Old 11-24-2012, 01:15 PM
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Sounds as if your wife is having a good time and wants to throw you off the track. No woman woud give her H a green light to go drop loads elsewhere (unless an open marriage) and not want to do the same.

You need to have someone keep an eye on her during one of her disco diva nights and see how innocent she is. Guys will hit on women for sure, but she may be acting a certain way that is inviting.

I don't get the 'get him hard and go sleep somewhere else' move. Why don't you sleep together all night, sex or no sex?
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You know, even though this is an old thread, i still feel the need to comment. My wife started acting funny back in December 2016. She came home one night after work and told me her and her girlfriend were planning a sleepover at her house 1-1/2 hrs away. I have not liked this friend since my wife and I got together because all she wants to do is go out to the bars (She has been married and divorced twice because she has a hard time not cheating). We have been married for 8 years/together for 10. We do not go out that often as we have a crap-ton of kids. When I said something about her just going out with her in town, or all of us go together and then come home, she got pissed off and told me, "I knew I shouldn't have told you". We got into an argument the next day about the situation and that is when she came clean and told me that it was only her that was planning the sleepover, because she thought she would take the bottle of wine my parents got us for Christmas and stay at her house and drink and talk. There is no way that they would have been staying at the house and not going to the bar, considering her friend lives basically right next to the bar.

Ever since then she has been acting funny and distant and has asked me if I trust her. I explained that it's not her that I do not trust, its all the ignorant morons and drunks at the bar that are there for nothing more than a hookup for the night and that is exactly what her friend does. I told my wife her friend acts like a 20-something child that wants to go out drinking at the bars and closing them down.

When I told her I do not feel comfortable with her sleeping at her friends and that she could go out with her, but just to come home after, she got really irate about the whole situation. We used to have sex quite a bit and the last 6 months, I would say, we have had sex maybe twice or three times a month if I was lucky. She told me the other night that it's not the fact that she doesn't want to have sex, but never would elaborate on that

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You know, even though this is an old thread, i still feel the need to comment. My wife started acting funny back in December 2016. She came home one night after work and told me her and her girlfriend were planning a sleepover at her house 1-1/2 hrs away. I have not liked this friend since my wife and I got together because all she wants to do is go out to the bars (She has been married and divorced twice because she has a hard time not cheating). We have been married for 8 years/together for 10. We do not go out that often as we have a crap-ton of kids. When I said something about her just going out with her in town, or all of us go together and then come home, she got pissed off and told me, "I knew I shouldn't have told you". We got into an argument the next day about the situation and that is when she came clean and told me that it was only her that was planning the sleepover, because she thought she would take the bottle of wine my parents got us for Christmas and stay at her house and drink and talk. There is no way that they would have been staying at the house and not going to the bar, considering her friend lives basically right next to the bar.

Ever since then she has been acting funny and distant and has asked me if I trust her. I explained that it's not her that I do not trust, its all the ignorant morons and drunks at the bar that are there for nothing more than a hookup for the night and that is exactly what her friend does. I told my wife her friend acts like a 20-something child that wants to go out drinking at the bars and closing them down.

When I told her I do not feel comfortable with her sleeping at her friends and that she could go out with her, but just to come home after, she got really irate about the whole situation. We used to have sex quite a bit and the last 6 months, I would say, we have had sex maybe twice or three times a month if I was lucky. She told me the other night that it's not the fact that she doesn't want to have sex, but never would elaborate on that
Start your own thread in the Coping with Infidelity Forum. It makes no sense to latch onto this old dried-out booger.
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Check your phone bill online. It's best to know what you're dealing with. VAR in the car. You have all the classic red flags.

Don't be in denial of what you're about to deal with. Denial at this time will not help you at all but prolong your stay in limbo.
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So was the not sleeping with you along with the other things like no sex, etc or did the no sex just start?


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0P now if someone else told your story to you, what conclusion would you come up with. If it was someone like your best friend or brother what would you say to them... I hope you would say she's a cheating POS... You need to read your story to yourself.! I guess a few times.? I hope you come to the same conclusion everyone else's is. It is so obvious... even she was trying to tell you herself. OP Try to stand up to your wife and be the man in your marriage. Can't letter go out drinking at a bar every night come on. I think your only move is to just file for Divorce. She's got absolutely no respect for you. Why even waste time. Take this time and find someone that will treat you with respect like you deserve.

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Start your own thread in the Coping with Infidelity Forum. It makes no sense to latch onto this old dried-out booger.
Yes, Red Flags are flying. You have plenty of reason to pursue this change in your spouse.
Agreed. Start your own thread and you will get more support. I see a old thread I immediately go to the last page to see if it's an update. If its a zombie thread that's been bumped I move on.
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At the top of the page [left-ish side] go to Forums, Focused Topics, then Coping with Infidelity.

Then hit 'Start a Thread' and weave us a tale of Woe!

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

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Erotic ark, Sir!

The ship that does not sail....still lays on its ancient side on Mt Ararat.

The ship that was floated by the threat of extinction. An end to married life.

A ship that was "holed" by a wayward world. A torpedo sent straight into your wife.

You are out there hovering and contemplating returning to this thread.

Please do. Finish the bloody red fool wine that she did not "yet" finish.


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