Re: Signs of a cheating wife...
You know, even though this is an old thread, i still feel the need to comment. My wife started acting funny back in December 2016. She came home one night after work and told me her and her girlfriend were planning a sleepover at her house 1-1/2 hrs away. I have not liked this friend since my wife and I got together because all she wants to do is go out to the bars (She has been married and divorced twice because she has a hard time not cheating). We have been married for 8 years/together for 10. We do not go out that often as we have a crap-ton of kids. When I said something about her just going out with her in town, or all of us go together and then come home, she got pissed off and told me, "I knew I shouldn't have told you". We got into an argument the next day about the situation and that is when she came clean and told me that it was only her that was planning the sleepover, because she thought she would take the bottle of wine my parents got us for Christmas and stay at her house and drink and talk. There is no way that they would have been staying at the house and not going to the bar, considering her friend lives basically right next to the bar.
Ever since then she has been acting funny and distant and has asked me if I trust her. I explained that it's not her that I do not trust, its all the ignorant morons and drunks at the bar that are there for nothing more than a hookup for the night and that is exactly what her friend does. I told my wife her friend acts like a 20-something child that wants to go out drinking at the bars and closing them down.
When I told her I do not feel comfortable with her sleeping at her friends and that she could go out with her, but just to come home after, she got really irate about the whole situation. We used to have sex quite a bit and the last 6 months, I would say, we have had sex maybe twice or three times a month if I was lucky. She told me the other night that it's not the fact that she doesn't want to have sex, but never would elaborate on that
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