Me (m30) found out my wife (f30) of 9 years was sending pictures to a guy, made out with him. : relationships
There is my post on reddit concerning this
But a quick rundown.
Two Saturday's ago, she was drunk, and he kissed her, they suppsoedly made out, then she pushed him off saying it was wrong.
This last week, we were out of town. And they texted back and forth a lot, and she said he asked for pictures from her.
She said she was confused but was seeking attention. She sent him a lot of pictures.
And they have been texting back and forth every sense, a lot of texts. Two nights ago, having my radar going off, I grabbed her phone and cornered her into telling me what was going on.
She wouldn't give any details till I had to basically interrogated them out of her. I felt like I didnt get an answer till I asked the question.
Basically, I was referred here from Reddit, I wanted to one, try and recover the text messages, she has an iphone 4s. And two, I want to get advice in here.
Just to be clear as well. I tried recovering from itunes, but she hasnt synced this last week.
Also, I'm not sure why I want to see the texts, but it feels like I need verification of everything she said, because its hard to believe anything she says right now. I mean, on one hand I believe her, but maybe I am being too trusting, and she is telling me what I want to hear.