How I recovered from my husband's affairs
Hi Friends,
Just wanted to say that I am glad that I got to know this forum and am also sad that there are numerous cases of infidelities in the world.
A brief intro: My name is Stephanie Stewart, am married for 6 years now.
My husband was my former colleague. We both work for a finance headhunting firm in Melbourne. We were both consultants under different departments. He was on Equities and I was on Private Banking.
We dated for a while, you know the usual, going for drinks first than dinner and eventually it leaded to something steamier.
We were on a major high with each other but due to our nature of our jobs, we sometimes see each other like 3 to 4 times a month as we were either traveling or attending seminars and what have you.
The dinner was always at 5 stars restaurants and drinks were at bars and everything was going great
Then BAM... I was pregnant and to cut the long story short our marriage took place very quicky.
I had to quit my job to care of the baby (Which was his idea)
He got promoted
Well, he was always traveling and sometime I would only see him for once a month and sometimes none at all
Even after my son was born- my husband was not around, always entertaining, always traveling
One day, I was collecting the mail when I saw his credit card bill, I opened it and to my suprise, he spent almost 10,000 on a diamond designer female watch ring and it was not for me.
I questioned him and he hit me once for touching his staff
my ex colleagues had told me that he was very cozy and lovey dovey with a lady colleague that I also know of. To top it of, she is married too...
anyway he confessed afew years later and admitted that he was having affair with her for almost 6 or 7 months..
It took me awhile to really trust him again but his attitude had changed and things got better
Books had really helped me alot
Take Care,
Stephanie
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