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Old 12-02-2012, 07:56 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Hey guys,
New here and by my thread title I don't think its a secret why.
Overall doing pretty well and if you need to know - it was a one night drunken thing that the wife has shown an incredible amount of regret and sorrow over and has done everything right to make amends. We're doin OK.
With that being said, I was wondering if anyone has read Kevin Jackson's book "Surviving her Affair". Its a tough pill to swallow because its $47 but it grabs me because when it asks questions like "Do you have thoughts of the affair going through your mind and negative thoughts and want to learn how to get rid of thinking of your wife with another man right away?"
Hell yes I do!!!
So I am just being naive and he's playing on that for a quick buck since he knows we'll do anything to make these thoughts go away or did anyone read it and it had good info that can be put into effect?
Thanks all.
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Hey guys,
New here and by my thread title I don't think its a secret why.
Overall doing pretty well and if you need to know - it was a one night drunken thing that the wife has shown an incredible amount of regret and sorrow over and has done everything right to make amends. We're doin OK.
With that being said, I was wondering if anyone has read Kevin Jackson's book "Surviving her Affair". Its a tough pill to swallow because its $47 but it grabs me because when it asks questions like "Do you have thoughts of the affair going through your mind and negative thoughts and want to learn how to get rid of thinking of your wife with another man right away?"
Hell yes I do!!!
So I am just being naive and he's playing on that for a quick buck since he knows we'll do anything to make these thoughts go away or did anyone read it and it had good info that can be put into effect?
Thanks all.
Couldn't find it on Amazon, so it's probably self-published. And that is very costly on short runs printing. Hence higher prices.
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Old 12-02-2012, 08:17 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Don't waste your money.

The only thing that will heal you is time and holding your wife accountable and making her win you back.

Even after that, you will always have triggers that you will have to face and decide if you want to live with. Don't look for a quick fix because there is none.
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Old 12-02-2012, 08:56 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I agree.
I figure it was like I said.."Just read page 144 and you will no longer have thoughts of your wife with another guy"
Yeah, right. I might as well order those pills to make me jacked and ripped without exercise while I'm at it.
I've been doing the therapy thing just to get stuff off my chest and talking to the wife a lot and have her understand exactly what its like for me.
Thanks.
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Old 12-02-2012, 09:52 PM   #5 (permalink)
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The only way you will never have thoughts of your wife with another man, after this horrible choice of hers, is if you lobotamize yourself.

The degree and frequency to which it happens is what changes.
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Old 12-03-2012, 06:05 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I bought his e-book and honestly can tell you...DONT BOTHER! I have recieved more help just from lurking these forums than anything else, and once you buy it, he tries to sell you a ton of other crap that he says will really help speed up the healing even more....even though he advertises his ebook as the best tool out there to do exactly that. He also is just a regular guy and really just throws out different ideas, TAM is a far better resource and you wont find any information in that overpriced ebook that you wont find here. Just MHO
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Old 07-16-2013, 04:30 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Hi Krushed Dad,

This is Kevin Jackson, and I'm SO sorry my e-book wasn't for you. But I am happy you found the help you needed in this wonderful forum - I agree, this forum is definitely a treasure trove of useful info...

And yes, I do offer other products in additional to my ebook that have helped many people heal even faster. I work hard to make sure all the info I share is profoundly helpful to most people. And I've been fortunate enough to have received several hundred testimonials from people praising the book - saying it either helped heal their emotional trauma or aided in the process of healing their marriage.

Again, I'm so sorry the book didn't work for you personally - I hope you asked for a refund! - but I wouldn't want your review to stop others from getting my advice that may actually do some good in their situation... and has already helped hundreds of others.

All the best and good luck,
Kevin Jackson
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Old 07-16-2013, 06:53 PM   #8 (permalink)
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I've not read it. Another TAM member i respect tons did and recommend it. He even has the link at his signature.
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Old 12-20-2013, 06:02 PM   #9 (permalink)
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So I am just wondering did Kevin Jackson recover his marriage or did he end up "surviving the affair " in a divorce. Anyone ?
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Mr jackson, was worried someone might not buy his book, because of this thread. That tells you everything. Just like harley these guys peddle co-dependency and teach you how to be a doormat.

Recovering your marriage at the cost of your self respect is not worth it.

Taking back a cheater while keeping your self resoect is the only way to go.

Oh, and i did read the book.
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Old 12-21-2013, 04:23 AM   #11 (permalink)
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The only thing that will lessen the pain of triggering is TIME.

Work on yourself and try and stay as active as you can.

Once those painful triggers become less and less intense and are more
reflective, dull pains... you'll know you're healing.

That being said, the pain will never fully go away.

Never.

The answer isn't inside of a $80 book..... it's inside of your heart.
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Old 12-21-2013, 08:40 AM   #12 (permalink)
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I found the book very helpful the weeks right after dday when I was still in shock, thought it was worth the $. Just reading about others experiences was helpful to not feel alone. He framed some things nicely and helped calm the part of me that wanted to rage. The knowledge is in the books.
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I read it and I'm still divorcing my WW.

No book is going to make it possible for you to successfully R. If it's in you, it's in you. If not....well, there you have it.
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I got some bad advice right after dday, people said 'you shouldn't read so much' as if sticking your head in the sand was the better option. I also got great advice, from a person here that also directed me to that book. At the time it made me feel a little better and that was huge for me. The surviving part isn't about saving the m, it's about saving your sanity.
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Old 12-23-2013, 10:11 AM   #15 (permalink)
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I did not read the book so can't comment on this particular one. However I have read a few and found take aways that helped me from books and this site.
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