louhazosc

Hey guys,
New here and by my thread title I don't think its a secret why.
Overall doing pretty well and if you need to know - it was a one night drunken thing that the wife has shown an incredible amount of regret and sorrow over and has done everything right to make amends. We're doin OK.
With that being said, I was wondering if anyone has read Kevin Jackson's book "Surviving her Affair". Its a tough pill to swallow because its $47 but it grabs me because when it asks questions like "Do you have thoughts of the affair going through your mind and negative thoughts and want to learn how to get rid of thinking of your wife with another man right away?"
Hell yes I do!!!
So I am just being naive and he's playing on that for a quick buck since he knows we'll do anything to make these thoughts go away or did anyone read it and it had good info that can be put into effect?
Thanks all.

MattMatt

Couldn't find it on Amazon, so it's probably self-published. And that is very costly on short runs printing. Hence higher prices.

jameskimp

Don't waste your money.

The only thing that will heal you is time and holding your wife accountable and making her win you back.

Even after that, you will always have triggers that you will have to face and decide if you want to live with. Don't look for a quick fix because there is none.

louhazosc

I agree.
I figure it was like I said.."Just read page 144 and you will no longer have thoughts of your wife with another guy"
Yeah, right. I might as well order those pills to make me jacked and ripped without exercise while I'm at it.
I've been doing the therapy thing just to get stuff off my chest and talking to the wife a lot and have her understand exactly what its like for me.
Thanks.

Broken at 20

The only way you will never have thoughts of your wife with another man, after this horrible choice of hers, is if you lobotamize yourself.

The degree and frequency to which it happens is what changes.

KrushedDad

I bought his e-book and honestly can tell you...DONT BOTHER! I have recieved more help just from lurking these forums than anything else, and once you buy it, he tries to sell you a ton of other crap that he says will really help speed up the healing even more....even though he advertises his ebook as the best tool out there to do exactly that. He also is just a regular guy and really just throws out different ideas, TAM is a far better resource and you wont find any information in that overpriced ebook that you wont find here. Just MHO
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