suggestions?? How to manage living seperately in same house
It looks like we'll have to live in the same house for awhile until I can contact a lawyer and try and get my share of the house. My H refuses to give me any money (he doesn't think there's a problem) I have no desire to keep the house. OW lives across the street.
I finally gave up on trying to get the emotional connection. I even asked him for the final time tonight if we could talk. He flat out said NO. I think he's afraid of what I know to be true about his other infidelities but doesn't want to admit them.
He doesn't see how l could possibly live on my own and refuses to let me take the kids. Still in denial of the whole thing.
Anyway, I told him I won't be doing his laundry anymore and if he wants something from the grocery store he'll need to get it. I also plan on canceling our joint banking account and just have us pay bills separately. He was the one who told me not to touch his money and that's why I decided to close the joint account and just pay what I can with my money. Who knows the mortgage may never get paid now but I don't care much anymore.
What other suggestions do you have??? I want to make sure he knows things are OVER!! Sex stopped months ago as the emotional connection was gone for me.
Unfortunately, until I get that money I won't be able to move and I refuse to give that up. We would have never been able to even buy any house without my grandmother giving us the money. She has since passed away and I know would be furious if I didn't get what I deserve from this house.
We also have 3 kids living at home. Two teenagers and one preschooler.
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