Re: How do I get over it?
Please start with the newbie link in my signature.
You can never 'get over' being cheated on. You can move past it, but it will always have happened, and it will always hurt.
Now, YOU aren't the one who needs to do much - HE is. What is he doing to prove to you he isn't still lying and cheating?? His life should be an open book right now - you have full access to EVERYthing he does or says. His phone, computer, bank accounts, credit cards, etc. He should be falling all over himself to win you back. He is VERY lucky you didn't throw all his belongings out the door and change the locks.
Also, 'just kissed' is cheatspeak for sex. So go and get STD tested and DO NOT have sex with him any more until he has proven he is clean, and truly remorseful.
Lastly, he'd better quit drinking. Was he at a bar, or what?
People don't get a free pass to cheat just because their marriage sucks. Our R