12-11-2012, 10:29 AM
Join Date: Nov 2012
| | Re: Husband forgives himself
Why are you bargaining with him? That's for your lawyers later. Right now, things are as they are...whether he likes it or not. You have your daughter, he spends time with her. He's talking with you to stir up things, scare you, make you crazy. Ignore him. Don't answer his calls about foolishness. P.S. Your daughter wasn't placed in your life to fill your lonliness needs. Never tell him that again, btw. Your daughter has a life...invest your time and love in her. Make him walk up and down his byways and highways by himself on his own time. You have to make a choice not to go with him, set your boundaries. Time for you to tough up on him and love up on her. You need to ask yourself, "Ok, where did this conversation lead to and how did it make things better?" (usually nowhere and no better); then decide if it was a waste of your valuable time. Only you can decide if your time has value.
Last edited by Calibre12; 12-11-2012 at 10:40 AM.