Re: Did your WS call you "controlling"?
No, my husband was not controlling at all. Even now, it doesn't feel like controlling. I know though, without a shadow of a doubt, that if I do anything to break NC or have inappropriate contact with any other man, then he will be gone. So that's on me. He's not controlling me; I know his limits and I am finally respecting them.
~ChangingMe, former wayward wife
Thankfully still married to DevastatedDad
We cannot start over, but we can begin now, and make a new ending. -Zig Ziglar