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Originally Posted by MizSmith
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My H took me to dinners every friday as promised so we could get back on track and rekindle things. We talked, hung out and things seemed ok. That lasted all of a couple months.
Now, hes back to being "comfortable". Hes no longer working on rekindling anything. Always too tired, we dont go to dinner because of money yet he can have drinks at the bar almost every night. Oh but after an argument last week he asked me to dinner but was a couple hours late because he went to the bar first!! That showed me exactly how unimportant the night was to him. I said forget it if you ask me out then make sure youre on time and dont make a pit stop at the bar.... We talk casually, but nothing is like it was when he was first trying to work on us. It's back to the same old rut. And he's back to being the same old a$$..
I hope you have better luck with your H. Try not to let him feel like everything is all fine and dandy too soon.
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I am so sorry that your H is doing that to you. I hope and pray that things will get beter for you.
Its going on 4 in he morning and I just now staring to wind down. Its been a long two days. Tuesday was long and very eventful. My H and I ran some errands and I had to file a police report. 2 of my rings are missing out of the my car...my wedding band and the most expenseve ring I have ever owned (my H gave it to me for my 30th bday). The OW was the last person in my car at the time my rings wen missing. I took them off and tossed them on the dashboard and they slid down onto the floor board. I drove her and her brats back to where they belong, thats why she was in my car. Anyway I filed the police report and then we drove up to the beach to be with his family. My H and I got along great that day...it was like we were dating again but even better. We stayed up talking till 4 Am when we finally laid down he held me for 2 hrs (the only time we slept). Then this evening a big fight broke out beween his mother and me. She is angry at me because of somethings I said on facebook...which i was venting and not thinking of his family seeing it. Long story short everyone left (there were 8 of us). His family has basically disowned him whether or not we stay together. I know everyone is hurt and angry but why did she have to start something when things were going so well?? He is blaming me because I couldnt keep quiet. Well I am sorry but I am not going to get yelled at like a child for a mistake I made. Im not the one who cheated. When we got home he yelled at me saying it was my fault he has noone now. I was able to calm him down and we talked about alot of issues. He fell asleep on the couch and we werent fighting. I dont know what to think of all this. Should I leave and make his family and my stepdaughter happy? Or do I stay and fight for my marriage which I believe strongly that we have a new chance? I am determined to stay but will he resent me later down the raod (and im not the one who started the fight)? I am so confussed.
Re: just found out about cheating husband
