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Old 12-18-2012, 01:53 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Hi,
I had previous posts thinking my wife might be cheating on me. Well, she just admitted that she has been having Massage session with her girlfriend.

They have kissed, rubbed each other all over. This has happened more than once, several times. She told me she loves her very much, they love each other and that she loves me, she loves her family, we have 2 kids..

Is this cheating?? Im really confused, does that mean she is Bi-sexual?

Im glad its not with another Man, but Im just shocked and confused. Maybe a great way to start a 3some with her best friend, atch them give each other a massage.
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Old 12-18-2012, 01:55 PM   #2 (permalink)
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it's cheating no matter how you slice it


it may seem "hot" to you but unless you are willing to open up your marriage this is cheating and deep betrayal
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and I really do NOT recommend that you explore the 3some open marriage avenue, it almost always doesn't end well
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Old 12-18-2012, 01:57 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Yes, it's cheating. Man or woman... doesn't really matter.

Yes, she may be bi... does she have sex with you?
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Old 12-18-2012, 02:22 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Yes we do have sex.. She is supposedly getting a Super Massage from her "friend", they dont finger each other but they feel each other completley naked including the private parts.. they have occationly kiss.
She says she enjoys it very much with her girl friend and actually they Love each other. Her friend is also married with 4 kids.
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then tell her husband
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If you have some common decency, you will tell OWH.
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Old 12-18-2012, 02:27 PM   #8 (permalink)
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it's cheating no matter how you slice it


it may seem "hot" to you but unless you are willing to open up your marriage this is cheating and deep betrayal
I do agree it is cheating but I think I could handle this a little better. The mind movies would not be as bad
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Old 12-18-2012, 02:35 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Oh yeah it's cheating

Time for a serious conversation with your wife

Can you see yourself with someone who will want to have sex with others?
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Old 12-18-2012, 02:50 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Im glad its not with another Man, but Im just shocked and confused. Maybe a great way to start a 3some with her best friend, atch them give each other a massage.
Good luck with that.

We've seen plenty of examples how that ends. Since you'll be tasting another woman she'll ask for another man sooner or later.
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Dude, you're in for a world of hurt. Now you have to be on the look out for inappropriate behavior by your wife with other men AND women.

You might get short term gratification by having 3Somes with your wife and other women but in the long term you are going to lose big time.
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Old 12-18-2012, 02:58 PM   #13 (permalink)
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You should start the process of divorce so she either wakes up from fantasy land or chooses it permanently.
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Old 12-18-2012, 03:03 PM   #14 (permalink)
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And you want a threesome with a married woman? Can't exactly say I sympathize with you.
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Old 12-18-2012, 03:07 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Why don't you all 4 (both couples) just move in together and share everything then?? You can be one big happy family.

Sorry, I just do NOT understand this way of thinking. She's with another woman so you'll just join in

She's cheating on you, man. Like someone else said, now it's not only half the human race she could be cheating with, it's ALL of the human race.

Please wake up.
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