Re: She kissed him.. And it was meaningful..
Look the bottom line is your wife had an inappropriate encounter with another man while drunk and even slept in the same bed. He kissed her and she evidently did not push him away or tell him "No way, I'm married". She stayed the night with him. She sent him a message that she is open to his advances, just not ready to take it further.
Then this same man invites her over to his house for "video games". He asked her out on a date and she accepted and lied to you about where she was going. Message? She is open to his advances. She planned to stay the night with him at his house and chickened out (or so she says).
You are rationalizing excuses for her behavior. I know you don't want to believe she will not have sex with him (probably already has). But even without the sex, she has still gotten physical with another man. You hope she is confused and will snap out of it. That is a long shot.
When a woman will cheat on her husband in the first few years of marriage odds are she will not hesitate to do so latter in the marriage.
It is not worth the chance. Divorce.
Last edited by TDSC60; 12-24-2012 at 12:49 PM.