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Old 01-03-2013, 09:01 AM   #1 (permalink)
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i have been with my husband for 10 years we been married for 3 of those years....we have two children...i am all about family or well i use to be...my husband has cheated on me numerous times and he dont admit to it even though i know and he knows that i know...i cant get over it all if he cant come clean...we almost called it quits a couple months ago cause he said he was unhappy and didnt know why but later that night when he went to get his stuff he said it wasnt me cause he couldnt leave so i came back and then a few days later it was the same thing so i told him to leave and he did but the same night begged me to let him back and me being me i did...i struggle with the past all the time and cant let it go cause theres so many unanswered questions...he would cheat on me talk to other women behind my back and i am sure he still does one inperticular...i have recently started kinda talking to this guy and i have NEVER done this to my husband before...we have never kissed hung out or anything like that but i am very attracted to him...i think everything that has built up with my husband has made me wanna take a break so i can clear my head....people tell me all the time i deserve better and hes no good even his own friends have and i am just sick and tired of walking round with my head down cause i know other people know what hes done and dont wanna tell me...please help me decide what to do...
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Look two wrongs do not make it right. Revenge A's never work, break it off now. You need to decide to either D or A.

It sound like he is a serial cheater so start up the papers and file for D.
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Old 01-03-2013, 09:52 AM   #3 (permalink)
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You need to knock it off with the other guy and figure out what you really want with your H. If he's a jerk and you think you deserve better then file for D and let the dust settle before you fall into an affair. If you continue on with this other guy you are making yourself look just as bad as your WH.
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