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Old 02-22-2013, 06:05 PM   #451 (permalink)
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I've known in my heart for a while now that I am done.
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Old 02-22-2013, 06:32 PM   #452 (permalink)
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She is my cousins wife - I've known them longer than my wife. She lives out of province (out of state for you Americans). Last summer, when this started up, the 2 of them went to the bar where she works and did a bunch of blow. POSOM was there, so no doubt she knew at the time.

Just got a text from this woman "hey handsome, need to talk? I'm always here for you...".
Seriously? Forward it to your cousin
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Old 02-22-2013, 06:34 PM   #453 (permalink)
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Well
you know what they say...

"Slvts of a feather don't stick together. They cheat with each other's husbands..."
Who says that??
Lol.
I'm gonna use that line
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Old 02-22-2013, 06:35 PM   #454 (permalink)
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I think you should give a bit of thinking on how to end this marriage. The way you are doing it now, the situation will escalate into something nasty. You know you wife. So discuss with your family and friends on how to approach the situation and "manage" her so as to make it less hurtful for both the parties....
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I think you should give a bit of thinking on how to end this marriage. The way you are doing it now, the situation will escalate into something nasty. You know you wife. So discuss with your family and friends on how to approach the situation and "manage" her so as to make it less hurtful for both the parties....
You have that right Warlock.
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Her husband and I are very close. And I am no POSOM.
TD, do I have this straight (perhaps I missed something)? You said this "friend" that is now texting you on your WW's behalf knew all about her betrayal before you did. You also said that you've known these people longer than your WW and you're good friends with the husband of this supposed "friend".

Is he aware of her enabling culpability in all this?
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Holy crap. She's a total whacknut. BLOCK her.
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Yes. "You know you love me. You'll always love me".
"I'm begging you to come talk to me, please do this for me"
Again, if she was that sane to begin with, she would not have had the affair with the lowlife biker. Her emotional intelligence is severely lacking.

She in her f*cked mind is doing all she can. Again, this is not a case of a WW being apathetic to R or being cruel in the aftermath. She noticed that OP is moving on and is acting crazy...

Sometimes I wish Beowulf kept posting.. Some of the threads are turning into hate fests these days
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She really is. If she doesn't calm down and act rationally, I will play that card.
From what I can see, she hasn't been calm or rational for a while...........
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I miss Wulf. And Morituri. Those two guys brought clarity.
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I miss Wulf. And Morituri. Those two guys brought clarity.
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I agree,never was anyone like those two and never will be.
Tams lost a valuable resouce.
You'd think by now they'd be paroled.
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I agree,never was anyone like those two and never will be.
Tams lost a valuable resouce.
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Obviously, they were before my limited time here. What happened?
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Obviously, they were before my limited time here. What happened?
All I can say is they were a huge help.
To many couples who went through the garbage we all had to deal with.
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Anyone knows how they are doing. Morituri helped me a lot on the subject of forgiveness.
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The Deceived,

Not sure if this has been covered already. Do you think she has bpd?
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All I can say is they were a huge help.
To many couples who went through the garbage we all had to deal with.
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Sorry they're not here anymore. Obviously good people. I like to learn from folks like this.

Who was it that said: "every man is my master in that I may learn something from him".
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