Sometime I feel that I should leave her…both of us has problem in leaving each other because of social stigma and all.
What should I do?
Ok lets be clear. She has constantly cheated on you, took vows and signed a legal document (marridge licence has spoken of you and her intermate times with people who were seeking sexual gratification from hearing it and potentially having some time to do it with your W an we.. and you state …both of us has problem in leaving each other because of social stigma and all
Im not being rude here and please dont feel that. But I would feel a massive stigma if MY W went around telling people intermate details of our marridge when those people have no right to it know that is a stigma.
She has cheated, denied, lied, betrayed and broken her vows. Not once but on multipe occasions and even when you initially confront her she, you say seeks revenge by looking for sex outside your marridge. If this is the case look back at how often youve argued in the time youve been together and consider a ravenge attack after each event.
You really now need to consider IF you can actually trust her anymore. After an open descussion about staying together where it can become heated is she going to look across the net or her phone book for some guy to have a revenge attack with?
This is a new marridge 6 months old and this should be still in the honeymoon period. Yes you two could get some much needed suppport but when shes off with friends one night on a girls only party will you be happy that nothing will happen not even the heavy flirting or will you sit there wondering if tonight is the night she starts it all again. That will have a stigma to it. You need to feel confident that she is really into this marridge and not just living with you or she will look elsewhere and, it does happen to us all, when the time comes that a bumpy road is encountered in the marridge journey will she see someone else and start a cycle again but this time its further down the libne , children come into the equasion etc.
Some careful consideration of future trust is needed before you consider anything else as it appears from you post she has issues