So she sits in bed (with you?) and texts her new man? Jeeezz of all the nerve. Tell her to at least keep her hand out of her pants while she texts.
LOL, its not that..
If I am in the living room the only place she has to go to be private is the bedroom. The dinning room and living room are one big room. So even being in the dinning room I'm there. So she can't talk or text him while I'm there.
That call she got bothered me more then I thought. Seeing them together as a contact picture hit me in the gut. I literally had bad dreams about it. I couldn't sleep well last night. I woke up thinking about it during the night.
I'm gonna have to be as serious as a heart attack with her. I get she has to leave and I want her to go. But as I mentioned I am weak to her powers.
She did go to a birthday party with my youngest, I questioned her about the party and the story was odd. She said it was a daughter of a women from my sons school, but not the actual daughter in school but a younger daughter. It was also where the OM man lives which made no sense because of where we live. It would require a toll and time to get there. I just don't see someone having a party and having people do that.
I'm sure it was his family and she is just trying to get at least one of the kids acclimated to him. This way she only has to contend with the oldest.
She also buys the kids unnecessary toys, especially at this time. It is as if she wants to make it like nothing has changed for them, when it has.
I told them straight out money will be tight now that we have to divide it between 2 places.
Whereas before I really never had an issue if my kids wanted something. I could spend 400 dollars on something and not worry about it. Granted I couldn't do it every month, but I just wasn't crying for a dollar. Hindsight I should have been. Life lesson learned.
So yea I will have a talk with her about this. I will tell her that maybe her OM should start paying for the toll or her car gas or even car insurance. I want the car out of my name and off my insurance.
Again I am just trying ( trying being the keyword here )
to be nice until the papers are signed.