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02/01/13 Friday

Still hard time sleeping, BUT

Its funny how reality sets in.

I just figured out that when this was all a secret she was able to take days off or leave work early like she did during the first encounter, because I was flipping the bill for everything.

But now that I know she can't sneak out of work early anymore because she can't afford it.

I pay every bill in this home and she can't survive with what she makes. All she pays for is food for her and the kids and car gas. I am also paying the car insurance at this time.

The child support will cover the rent, but just the rent.. She will have to pay the other every day bills she isn't paying here.

End result I can see she will have to dip into the 45k A LOT. I know she has no clue. She has never rented an apartment. The only thing she knows about apartments is what what my renters have and those are brand new apartments.

She is looking around and thinks she will find some brand spanking new apartment for her to move into and its not happening. I see her calling real estate agencies and them calling here back as the caller id comes across the TV.

Its just so crazy that even a month ago in my mind I thought they were meeting at every chance to screw around. But the reality is totally different.

I remember she used to be up till 1 AM to talk to him. But now she is back to her old routine of falling asleep at 9 AM on the couch.

Its just a good feeling to know she is suffering and seeing how reality is setting in. I know she has to be thinking the same thing about the money.

I just need to get the truck out of my name along with that insurance. That is pretty much the last tie to me financially.

I can only pray that this guys figures out how to screw her for some money as well. I would love that.

Next week papers should be signed and we should be officially done.

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02/02/13 Sat

Still can't sleep but this time around when I woke up I made sure to remember what was going on.

I was saying I can't believe your leaving me.

I felt sad, I felt angry.

I'm in whirlwind of emotions.

I hate she is leaving. I am going to miss my kids.

I'm angry for the Fake R and all the **** she has done to me during that time.

I'm angry because she didn't listen to me when I told her if your gonna go, then go. But don't do all these things your doing to me. Why burn a bridge you don't have to for no reason. I even told her I know you don't see it now. But some day down the line you might want to fix this and with all your doing it is going to be impossible to take you back.

I'm angry because she didn't listen to me and I know if or when she wants to come back, it will be all of what she did to me during the break up that will prevent me for taking her back.

I know it will kill me to say no. It kills me because of my kids. I honestly didn't want this for my kids. I wanted them to be raised in a whole family. I know they don't want this either. It will also feel like I let my kids down.

Trust me part of me wants her out yesterday but when she goes my kids go. I know I'm making sound like I will never see them again, when it will be furthest from the truth. All I can say if you don't have kids it can be a bit hard to relate to. Kids just put a different spin/dynamics into this who infidelity and reconcile thing.

All she had to do was tell this OM look my husband is home so the calls for the day are done. I will talk to you tomorrow. At least to show me a bit of respect.

I'm not saying I see her texting or calling this guy anymore because I don't. The reality is I hear his calls or pings of the text message alerts. If I am in the same room and the ping goes off, she doesn't answer, but after enough pings she gets up to go to the bathroom and fakes a piss so she can answer the text messages.

But regardless to me it is all the same thing.

That she didn't care or made the excuse that no one knows him to find his facebook page with a picture of them together, just saying that to me smells of "I lost all respect for myself and I don't care if people know I am married and have another man. I don't care if I look like a wh.ore."

As a man the last thing I would want to do is out the woman I am having an affair with to her family or fear that the husband would out the wife to the family. Honestly I should have but I was too big of a pu.ssy. I just didn't want to hurt my financial situation.

It was only after I told her to get it down or else, that it went private 10 minutes later.

But it is all these things that will make it impossible for me to take her back and I am not even addressing the affair itself.

It's weird, I know dollar and sense wise it will be hard for her. She will be broke soon enough. I know she will realize as the bank account gets lower and lower each month that she will be getting closer to her demise.

I know she will have to introduce this guy to my kids and try to get him to move in because she will have to rely on him just to survive and pay her bills.

I'm only imagining what sort of impact this will have on my kids. I want them to say who are you GTFO. But sadly I think they will just accept it and deal with it in their own emotional way.

Thinking ahead to this I will introduce my kids to the therapist so they have a foundation with her now so when something does occur that they need to talk about, they know that they can go to her.

I'm stronger today, but in many ways I'm still the weak man begging my wife not to leave. The only difference is I don't ask her anymore and we just don't talk.

Which is another issue. We don't talk.. I don't want to talk to her. I think if we did, I would tell her to STFU and die. I just think that I can't say anything kind or rational to her anymore.

That contact picture of him and her on her phone when he calls was the last straw. Just something inside me snapped as I ridiculed myself for being so weak.

It is completely unfair that one person can control the out come of a family.

Its is retarded that everything I admit I was lacking to do in this marriage, I will now do for someone else that will hopefully come into my life.

I lost 30 pounds and I'm at 270. Even though at 6'3" they say I should be 220 I will probably get down to 250 easy by the time she is actually out.

Now for the first time in a long time I can suck my gut in and see my lower rib.

I just wish she would have come to me and expressed her issues and not done all of this.

And yes thinking ahead. When my wife does come begging back, the first thing I will do is ask her for cell phone and it's at this point she will sh.it a pill, because she will know exactly what I will be doing. Of course the minute I look through the phone of my EX begging to reconcile wife, I will find his contact and contact picture along with the text messages to him and pictures of him and her together.

And that is where I will turn to her and say this is why we can't get back together. That even NOW when your begging to come back you didn't even care enough to erase this man from your life. As your begging here, your still holding onto him and attached to him.

And I will be probably be crying and sobbing through it all.

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02/03/13 Sunday

I'm just fu.cking angry.. I'm at the point that even if it means seeing my kids go. If I had the money I would give it to her to GTFO.

Saturday she asked if I was going out. I asked why ? She said her friend ( co worker ) wanted to take her out to dinner. Mind you I feel this women knew what was going on and screening for her.

I told her I was going out. She caught the hint. Her friend was trying to reschedule for when I came home, but then understood it would never happen.

I went into the bedroom to make it crystal clear that if she wants to go out she can go out all she wants when she is in her new apartment and that I myself or my family will NEVER watch the kids for her while she is here so she can go out.

The fu.cking balls on her..

My soon to be 13 year old knows whats going on and knows the guys name. It wasn't hard with all the calls and text she gets.

I told my wife that the oldest knows and she just ignores it.

OMG I just am so pissed. I hate that she did this.. I hate that I have to bury my feeling for her down in my heart. I hate that I love her even with all the sh.it she is putting me through.

I hate the fu.cking weekends right now.. They drag on for forever.

I have aching chest. Its tight and a knot in the center of it..

I want to cry out of anger.

My son doesn't want to go, but he doesn't want to confront her. He doesn't want to see this guy. He is like my wife and bottles up his feelings. I basically explained he has no choice in going to the therapist at least once.

Even the psychologist told me again yesterday how could I ever believe her or take her back for all she has done. Even the professional sees this is impossible and I concur, I'm just mad it got to this. I wish when the time came there was some clause that would allow me that. I know I could just do it. But I know deep down its just another failure waiting to happen.

I just want her out so she can start to see this misery that she reaped upon herself. I hope everything goes wrong for her. I hope she takes liability out for the truck because she doesn't want to pay full coverage and then crashes it and its her fault so she can take a nice chunk of the money she is getting to fix the truck. Just something to give her a quick kick in pocket.

If you haven't figured it out yet. I'm mad.

I never want to talk to her again. I never want to be civil to her ever again. I will not disrespect her in front of my kids, but in private any conversations will be extremely minimal and to the point. It's the only thing I can do to keep me from cursing her out.

I really need someone else. I need someone to help make this anger go away.

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You know my father left when I was 12 and never came back. My mother took it very bad. She cried all the time in the beginning and I just didn't know what to do with her. We were well off and ended up broke. She worked 7 days a week to help keep this home we have. I started working at 13 and held 2 jobs, working in a grocery store during the week and holding a light video taking weddings during the weekends, Both Saturday and Sunday. I did my home work at catering halls during breaks.

I worked to help my mother. We had no cable we had no AC..

While in a Detective Squad about 8 years ago my mother called me to tell me the fan I bought when I was a kid with her broke. I fell to pieces at work. Why ? Because we would sleep in the same room and have the fan blow over us during the summer time. It was a reminder of a tough time in my life.

I then went to a technical school and worked in computers. I went straight from high school into this school. I was 20 working the city fixing computers for companies. Today that trade is gone. I used to fix hard drives the size of washing machines. They held 10 Meg discs the size of a large record.

I always helped my mother take care of this house. We are fortunate to have it. Though there are times like now that I feel it is cursed.

I'm not a millionaire, but the reality is at 45 I can retire and bring home 6k a month and not work. My promotion will make it 7k. I could sell this home with equity of 700k and buy something very nice in another state and probably have 400k in the bank. That is not counting 10k I get at the end of each year.

Up until December 30th that was the plan. To move away and just spend the rest of our lives fixing our marriage and then BAM she drops this sh.it on me.

I thought just like every other jack.ass I had a good life for once. That all my turmoil, my troubles, all my struggles all were worth something. Now I feel like I'm back in that room with that fan on me.

Is it so fu.cking dam hard for people just to think of what they are fu.cking doing and how it will fu.ck someone else up..

Yea I'm mad...

No let me rephrase that. I'm hurt.. I'm crushed.. I'm in shock...

I want to foot stomp on the floor and say why me.. what the fu.ck did I do to deserve this. I've been nothing but an honest man all my life. I tell and teach my boys to be Paladins. Not to lie, to be honest and honorable. To be true to your word.

Look I've had many women tell me they wanted me, but I never, never did anything that would hurt my wife. Even being out of state where I knew I would never get caught. I never strayed. I just took this sh.it serious.

What a fu.cking ass.hole I am..

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You aren't an ass0le and you know it. There's only one assh0le living in your home. Why don't you arrange to be gone most of next weekend? Go fishing at a lodge.

Take an extra shift at work. Take a road trip with one of your kids this weekend and another road trip the wkend after with the other.

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02/06/13 Weds

Yesterday the 5th I was good but in the afternoon I got a bit tense.

I went home found out the dog my wife decided to get even though she was leaving went down stairs to my mothers apartment and jumped up on the table and chewed up her glasses. She was pissed. I told her I would bring her to get new glasses. Unfortunately my mother is old and set in her ways. I know these new glasses just won't sit right on her or will have some sort of issue for her to complain about.

I told my soon to be EX not to have the dog go down stairs anymore. My mother is upset and does not want the dog down there anymore.

She retorted back the dog chewed up 4 pairs of my glasses as well. I said it doesn't matter what your issue is because your the one who wanted the dog. The dog isn't my mothers, he shouldn't be chewing up her glasses. She just wanted to argue to argue. I just walked away and went into the bedroom.

Friday I have a date or meet up with a 31 year old teacher. An old female friend set me up with her. It seems she has been through the same issues and after a year is ready to go out on dates again. I have to say she is beautiful women

But even at 45 I'm a bit nervous. Go figure big tough guy cop nervous to be with a young cutie. I know I will do fine, I just think its just the butterflies you get before doing a search warrant.

I have to honestly say thank god I lost 30 LBS. LOL

But that being all said sometimes I feel I didn't fight enough for this marriage and my kids. I know I did all I could think of. But I am more rational now, I think..

I truly believe if someone from the outside was to slap her into reality that it might give her something to think about. Basically someone from her family that could give her some tough love and just say, you sure you want to do this. Lets go over this.

Someone to stop her when she is trying to rewrite history. To say look every time I've seen you with him, he has always been affectionate. Hes never been abusive.

I just think you went off the deep end and you really need to think about his. Really sit down and think about this because you just might get to a point of no return. You sure you want to end a 19 year relationship with a man you really never had any serious issues with. He didn't drink, He never cheated on you.

Someone who could point out and say look how long have you been working 15 hours a week ? Do you even work those 15 a week all the time ? Which she doesn't.

Honestly have you really kept the house clean ? Do you think that maybe you just had too much time on your hand. That maybe you should have worked some more to keep you busy ?

Maybe you being the wife should have set things up for you guys to go somewhere if that really was an issue that you didn't go anywhere .

Why didn't you talk to your husband about your issues ? Why didn't you go to the therapist and have her call him in if you were afraid to say something ?

For someone to say You know I looked up infidelity fog and as I was talking to you I can see that you really fall into this category.

Don't you think your just in so deep now you don't know how to unbury yourself ?..

And to say Look you really have to understand that your husband will move on and in many ways has moved on. Do you really want your new husband to be fixed for someone else ?

Do you want everything you been through with him and all you have done with him to be at the benefit of someone else ?

With all of this would I take her back. Honestly I love her.. I feel she needs to go to see what its like, but I know she will use this OM as her crutch.

But with all of this my kids will be in limbo.

My oldest knows about this OM and his name. He has seen it enough on her phone to figure it out.

I told him he is not totally to blame because your mother could have just said no I am married. But he surely did not help out and helped destroy the marriage between you and your mother.

He cried. I cried, I couldn't help it.

My youngest got his first low score on a math test a few days ago. Am I saying these issues has something to do with it ? I don't know. Maybe so.

I don't really cry that much any more. I get choked up but I can hold back my emotions now. Even when alone I hold them back.

I'm sorry but I look at her and I love her and I don't want her to go, even though I know she has to.

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That little chat you wish someone would have with you stbxw that would have her snap out of the fog and into reality will be as effective as YOU delivering a well rehearsed, logical, and well reasoned speech to the dog explaining why chewing glasses is not productive, and actually harmful to his health.

So, when you can reason with the dog try reasoning with the b1tch.

Oh, and be sure you wear clean undies to your first date. (advice my dad gave me)

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People always come out of their fogs. You just can't tell what they'll do when that happens. Right now, you're doing the right thing by taking care of yourself and your kids.

Hope your date is fun. It's good to get out.
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Its funny how things work out.

I noticed she was short money. actually negative 90 dollars in the bank account. Via the phone automated teller.

My intent was to come home and give her a check for 100 dollars to clear the negative balance and then offer if she needed to go with her shopping for food if needed.

I get home I call her into the bedroom and she has nothing but attitude. I guess either she got half her check as she gets a biweekly check or the OM gave her some money.

But regardless I think she was talking to the OM while I was there at home for the first time. I either had to ask her or suk it up and not ask. I didn't want to ask to show I cared, plus I would have snapped if it was.

Nonetheless I didn't offer her anything but tell her the truck has to get out of my name.

Just when I was going to be the better man and help her out. She shows me how god dam nasty she can be..

What a dik I was for actually feeling bad.

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Just as I finish posting I hear choking and its my wife walking towards the kitchen. I of course get up and ask if she is okay. As she continues to cough and coke she asks for me to hit her back.

I of course do..

Then she walked away..

I told the dog your welcome.

A friend of mine told me if she ever comes back and is honestly, I mean honestly remorseful. Even if you just took her back and did nothing. She would have to live with that guilt inside her. She might try to play it cool, but she would know forever what a piece of cr.ap she was to you. I think the nicer you were would drive her even more nuts and every once in a while out of the blue all you would have to say is remember what you did to me and then continue on like nothing was said. Don't even acknowledge her response.

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That little chat you wish someone would have with you stbxw that would have her snap out of the fog and into reality will be as effective as YOU delivering a well rehearsed, logical, and well reasoned speech to the dog explaining why chewing glasses is not productive, and actually harmful to his health.

So, when you can reason with the dog try reasoning with the b1tch.

Oh, and be sure you wear clean undies to your first date. (advice my dad gave me)
Funny!!!

BTW I had a dog that wore clean undies everyday.


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A friend of mine told me if she ever comes back and is honestly, I mean honestly remorseful. Even if you just took her back and did nothing. She would have to live with that guilt inside her. She might try to play it cool, but she would know forever what a piece of cr.ap she was to you. I think the nicer you were would drive her even more nuts and every once in a while out of the blue all you would have to say is remember what you did to me and then continue on like nothing was said. Don't even acknowledge her response.

I laughed.
A conscience is needed for that to happen. She'd have to rent one. Nice thought though.

BTW you missed a golden opportunity to use a real 2x4.

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Walk, I've seen the 2x4 comment before. What does it mean ?

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02/07/13 Thurs

I go to work early. I'm in by 6 AM most of the time.

Broke down this morning. My partner and friend was here to help me out.

I'm so mad that she treats me like did something wrong.

I hope and pray she one day realizes what she did. I just hate fearing that she might never.

I was going to tell her that the door for her is closed, but I know then she will have to suck it up and not tell me anything and that is not what I want.

I want to let her know the door is open so she can come begging back and I can CRUSH her, like she did to me.

It is just a shame that not one person she knows could at least knock some sort of sense into her.

Its just roller coaster emotions I know..

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02/08/13 Friday
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Let me see if I can explain this.

My neighbor passed away from cancer. I went to the wake Sunday with my mother. My wife seen me get dressed up and she knew I was going somewhere with my mother.

She found out yesterday from my oldest son that this guy passed away. She was upset with me because I never told her. She called me stupid.

I told her I don't need to tell her those things anymore. I only care about my kids. If she was part of my family I would tell her.

The crux of my small argument with her was if you didn't do what you did I wouldn't have done this.

Her comment basically that one thing has nothing to do with another.

She basically does not like that I can fvck with her. Where as she can do the things she does.

I am going to make a pentagram on my floor when she leaves and pray for the karma bus.

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Hang in there H2H. Don't let her get you down. Don't let today's weather get you down either.

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