Re: Holiday romance???
I know you are hurting, been there. You are in shock mode and that is understandable. When I finally caught my wife cheating (suspected for years) I felt my life spinning away. After 30 years married, it was like a death to a close family member only worse.
Here's the point... I did not want to except the worst possible. I imagined some kind of lapse in judgement, a mistake, a meaningless one-time. In some weird way, I initially accepted her explanation. Do you see the point... I didn't want to believe she was capable of maintaining a sexual, emotional affair. WAKE UP!
Cheaters are liars by very definition. If they say only a kiss, it was sex. If they say only one time, it was a dozen. Your H has been caught... Now hear a truth.
The affair that you catch them in is usually the last affair they have had.