Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: Citizen of the World
Re: I Love you but I'm not in love with you !
Unfortunately, your wife seems to be following a WS script that far too many of us have seen. The "I love you but.." speech is really a way for the WS to say "I will be lying to you going forward, but I feel good about warning you". I know that's cynical, but I believe it is close to the truth.
You seem to recognize the mistakes you've made in neglecting her, is your wife willing to own her own sh!t regarding the EA's? If so, then there is a chance for rebuilding a new relationship. If not, prepare for the worst.
Sorry you're here. But you'll get lot's of advice. Read and learn from the experiences and mistakes of others. There really is a script.