Should I trust him?
Hi. I started having trust issues a few months ago. It all started with the way my husband was behaving shortly after we had a baby.
It all started when he was gone on business one weekend, I wanted to pay a bill so I had to check his credit card statement to see if it had been paid yet and I found all kinds of strange charges on it. After talking with him (nonaccusingly) he claimed he let his friend use his credit card for his affair. I don't like this but over time I know this is true...A few weeks later my husband and baby were napping in the same room so I went to turn the volume down on his phone and an open text message lit up talking about "getting naked and wanting you" but it was from someone he claims is a guy forwarding it to him from a girl hes seeing. Needless to say he got really mad at me and thought I opened it. Both of these things were not on purpose. But then I became paranoid and did open a text that just said "babe?" and then even called a number that popped up from a text and it was a girl. He texts all the time, day and night, he goes out with the guys every Saturday and stays the night, and he does 1-2 overnights shifts and work.
I don't know if I am being completely paranoid and mean or if my suspicions are true.