What signs of lying did your cheating SO give?
I was wondering, signs of lying....cheaters are very good at it! And it is almost impossible to pinpoint them. But everyone has them, and all signs are different. And indeed, in my research, just because a 'sign' is there, it doesn't mean a definite lie. So what were the signs of your wayward?
(Edit: When I mean signs of lying, I mean the physical signs as they lie to you face. Not the signs of cheating.)
I don't usually like these kind of posts, but I haven't seen one that asks this before. And I am interested in if there is a general lying signs script of cheaters, along with their word script.
Mine initially was when we got to a certain point he would get angry and defensive and walk out. I knew after a while of getting this that he was protecting his lies. I only learnt this once I came here.
Often, when I bring a certain bit up his hands start shaking. I believe his nervousness is due to his lying.
His 'I don't know's, frequent. And then his changed stories. And then after a while of I don't know and I can't remember, suddenly he can! Suddenly he remembers again.
Though some of these are circumstances that he dropped himself into, what I am interested in is the SIGNS of lying, at the time that they are doing it. I wish I was better at detecting them, though I think deep down I know. They are so subtle. But I am pretty sure of quite a few things. And that he is lying. Shame there isn't a red beacon above their head that goes off each time they lie! It would be so much easier.
Originally posted by TRy:
Question: How does a cheater say screw you? Answer: They say "trust me".
When the story does not make sense, that is because it is not true. When you get the truth, it all will make sense.
Last edited by Remains; 01-28-2013 at 01:57 PM.