Re: found this site at 2am and felt hope for the first time
I havent posted my story yet, I havent wrapped my head around my issues.
I do have advice though. In the 4 serious relationships I had that ended with the other person cheating, it always started the same way. The early signs were there, they would be big flirts, or be over friendly with my friends etc.
My advice is to take this as a warning sign and get out now please.
You can forgive her, you can tell her you love her, but you need to love yourself more and go before you are in any deeper.