My STBXH will get served with divorce papers this week.
My H who had/is having an affair with his married co-worker, will get served with divorce papers this week. It has been 8 weeks since we separated. He told me his affair had been going on since Oct. of 2012. We both mutually agreed for him to move out. Dday was Dec. 8 and he was moved out on by Dec. 12. Him and I have had little to no contact. I have done my best, to pretend like this isn't effecting me, to him, his family and any mutual friends we have. I am certain that I do not want to reconcile, and filed for divorce so I was hoping that having him served with divorce papers would empower me, give me my dignity and respect back. But lately I feel worse. I mean come on its been 8 weeks. He has had no contact with my daughter who he has been her seragent dad for 5 1/2 years. However, Sunday he texted her to take her to dinner for her grades. She told him no...she isn't forgiving him and was proud I filed. And I am annoyed he can abandon us and then 8 weeks later text her like "all is forgiven". We were together 3 1/2 years before we got married. And it's sad that my marriage is ending after 18 months. I know I am making the right decision, whether my heart wants to accept it or not. I mean he had a physical affair, lied to my daughter and I for almost 2 months before he was caught. Has anyone else filed after a few months and feel good about their decision?
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