Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Southern california
Re: WH wants to go out with they guys tonight. Huge trigger!!
Just put your foot down---he is still acting selfish---he doesn't "get it"---does he----HE IS MARRIED---MARRIED MEN ESPECIALLY AFTER CHEATING DO NOT GO OUT WITH THE GUYS TO BARS
Tell him either he stays home and acts like a married man---or he can defend a D. action and be single, and go to all the bars he wants
If he pouts or acts unhappy, get right up in his face about it---remind him he is married, and is s'pose to be with you, and he can't be trusted, anyway at this point---AND WALK AWAY
If he goes out---with the guys---you know where you are at
Besides, offering to let you talk to the guys at the bar---proves nothing---he can still be messing around with women, when he isn't talking to you on the phone
DRAW YOUR LINE IN THE SAND---either he is in a mge., with YOU, or he isn't!!!!!!!