Re: My wife wants to have an affair
I would have serious doubts about the child being yours, tbh. She came to you 2 months ago, saying she wanted to have an affair with her ex, and that she has been "talking to him"...Sorry, I think it's more likely she was already screwing him and the baby could very likely be his. I would give her ONE chance (and it sounds like you have done nothing about this so far, so that's why I say I'd give her a chance. If you HAVE done something, then that would be the end of it).... that one chance would consist of the following:
1. NC with the ex.
2. Baby is being DNA tested, regardless...and if the baby is not yours, she's gone.
3. You have access to all of her social media, cell phone, email, etc...anytime you want.
4. If it is EVER discovered that she DID have sex with ANYONE else, she's gone.
And regarding her sexual interest waning? Really, are you that blind??? Does it REALLY need to be spelled out to you???
You can use the 2x4 without adding nails to it.