Why am I so paranoid??
Why am I so paranoid when it comes to my man's exes??, he's had a few, but, I am only paranoid about one. I can't stand her, and when I see him talking to her, I get so stressed. I stopped talking to all of my exes, just because I know how paranoid it would make him, but I asked him to stop talking to her, and he refused to. I hate her so much, I have never hated anyone this much. He went up and stayed with her last year, he was meant to be staying in her spare room, but because the spare room already had someone in, he slept in her room, on 'her floor'. Why can't I believe that nothing happened??, all I keep thinking about is the fact that they're exes, so there was once a lot of feelings between them. And to be honest, because of my paranoia, I have it in my head that those feelings are still there, because of him refusing not to talk to her. Also, I am getting really paranoid that he will find someone else at work and leave me, :-(. Please can someone give me any advice.