Join Date: May 2012
Location: The Path to Righteousness
Re: Cheating Confirmed and Confronted but Need More Help
Be prepared to lose your marriage if you want to save it.
That's what you need to understand first and foremost.
It sounds to me like she's flaunting her cheating right in
your face and daring you to do something about it.
She's a cake eater and wants the security you provide
and also the excitement of sexting and being with the OM.
Personally, I don't know how you didn't punch his lights
out the first time you caught her over there.
I'm sorry my friend, but BOTH of them are making a mockery
of you and your manhood. You need to toughen up and fight back!!
If you're not strong and end up letting it just blow over, what does that tell her?
That you're a weakling who doesn't mind her being with other men.
Sit her ass down and tell her that she has ONE chance to come clean, or you're filing for D.
If she lies to you, you file for D.
If she refuses to answer, you file for D.
If she refuses to stop ALL CONTACT with this pr!ck, you file for D.
If she agrees to NC and you catch her again, you file for D.
I'm sorry you've been put in this position, but your wife seems
to be suffering from the same problems many cheating wives have in common. Mine did as well.
You can't fix them. They are broken and once they've checked out, they're GONE and are never the same person you married.
She's putting on a show for you and a different one for him
(if you catch my drift). Her life was boring and now she's playing
games just for the rush - like it's a soap opera or something.
Don't play along with her sick and twisted sense of reality.
Get your ducks in a row and prepare yourself for the battle of your life.
You're in good company here.