We did have her blocked but with changing IPODS and stuff I thought she was blocked still. She was not. I was going to block her again but was waiting for him to tell me about her 1st.
He needs to go into his FB settings and type her name in to block her. Changing iPods will make no difference to this.
Sorry just sounds like excuses to me.
If his boss wants him to have FB for work they should have a company site. Posted via Mobile Device
Click at the top right of any Facebook page.
Click How do I stop someone from bothering me?
Enter the name or email address of the person you want to block and click Block.
If you enetered a name, select the specific person you want to block from the list that appears.
People will not be notified when you block them.
If you can’t find someone using this method, try going to the person’s timeline and selecting Report/Block This Person from the dropdown.
If you still can't find the person you want to block, it’s possible that this person no longer uses Facebook or has restricted their privacy settings. Besides blocking, you can control the audience of stuff you share.
Since she poked him, you poke her back on your FB account. You mutually go on her FB via his account and write your NC letter to her there. Many, many APs try to pretend the BS doesn't exist. You assert your legal presence as this man's wife. That will zap her out of her own fog which falsely tells her he isn't really married and you don't exist.
She is the one contacting us. But if I poke her or write her a NC letter wouldn't that just think that she got what she wanted. Im so torn, I want to tell her to leave us alone. But then again I want to poke her to see what she does lol.
If she wants a NC letter, give it to her. I doubt that's what she's fishing for. If I missed it, did you make sure H knew that future "pokes" or contacts of any kind should be relayed to you?
You poke her back on your account. Let her believe he showed it to you and that should kill her nonchalance with the fact that he is married. Kill a bit of the secrecy. Tell him you will both write the NC letter to her on FB on her page. His hesitancy or willingness will tell you much.
These APs, seem to think thier own little world created with a WS, makes your marriage carte blanche. Participate openly, there isn't a damn thing she can do about it.
Install a keylogger first, they may go underground.
I don't get these chicks: Presumptuous, rude, sickos.
Even though my WS claimed he told his 8 yr. AP he's going back to his wife and children, she still felt she was deaf (and dumb) enough to send him a text on Christmas day. He deleted it. I know he is lying...said she said "Merry Christmas to you and the fam.." THE FAM...Like we know your a$$ and your Xmas sentiment was the perfect Christmas gift. Sorry, I am sarcastic...It's a big part of my culture.
I have always let him and her know that they are free to be together. I told her father that too. Just get the hell out of my life, the two of yous. Low-life scum bags. I asked him if he's doing me a favor by being "faithful" to me now? They can kiss my fanninigans.
I made it clear that it is easy for me to be faithful in marriage because I come from a household where discipline was taught. I made it clear that I am not a lower life form walking around the planet looking for an easy screw or even a challenge screw on a 24/7 basis. I have better ambitions. I made it clear that I am willing to be celebate for the rest of my life or until he dies.
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