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Old 03-14-2013, 10:54 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default update...I asked WH about the poke

on facebook and he said he was afarid to tell me because he was afaird to be accused of doing something. He said he is angry that she "contacted" him.
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Old 03-14-2013, 11:06 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I hope he's being honest. Take it with a grain of salt and continue to keep your eyes open!
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Old 03-14-2013, 11:10 AM   #3 (permalink)
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me too. I waited a few days, to see if he would tell me.
I check his email and fb from time to time.
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Old 03-14-2013, 11:11 AM   #4 (permalink)
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he needs to inform you of any and all contact from OW, even if it's a poke on FB, you can't build trust have a successful R without that
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Why has he not "blocked" her on FB?

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Get him off FB it's a load of crap anyway.
Does he really need to be on it?
If so, have a joint account.
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Why has he not "blocked" her on FB?

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We did have her blocked but with changing IPODS and stuff I thought she was blocked still. She was not. I was going to block her again but was waiting for him to tell me about her 1st.
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Get him off FB it's a load of crap anyway.
Does he really need to be on it?
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I like it, I found my sister on there.
He needs it for work. His union wants him to have it to spread the word on stuff quickly.
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We did have her blocked but with changing IPODS and stuff I thought she was blocked still. She was not. I was going to block her again but was waiting for him to tell me about her 1st.

changing ipods doesn't change your facebook settings

this could mean he unblocked her
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he needs to inform you of any and all contact from OW, even if it's a poke on FB, you can't build trust have a successful R without that

He is a coward, because he was afaird of me and being accused of stuff...well buddy not my fault.
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changing ipods doesn't change your facebook settings

this could mean he unblocked her
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Merely "unfriending" a person on FB doesn't completely block them.

Is that possibly what may have happened?
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He needs to go into his FB settings and type her name in to block her. Changing iPods will make no difference to this.
Sorry just sounds like excuses to me.
If his boss wants him to have FB for work they should have a company site.
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Old 03-14-2013, 12:01 PM   #13 (permalink)
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we work at a supermarket. It's for the union.

I had to clean both ipods and I never checked to see if she was blocked.
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How do I block someone?
To block someone:

Click at the top right of any Facebook page.
Click How do I stop someone from bothering me?
Enter the name or email address of the person you want to block and click Block.
If you enetered a name, select the specific person you want to block from the list that appears.

People will not be notified when you block them.
If you canít find someone using this method, try going to the personís timeline and selecting Report/Block This Person from the dropdown.
If you still can't find the person you want to block, itís possible that this person no longer uses Facebook or has restricted their privacy settings. Besides blocking, you can control the audience of stuff you share.
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Since she poked him, you poke her back on your FB account. You mutually go on her FB via his account and write your NC letter to her there. Many, many APs try to pretend the BS doesn't exist. You assert your legal presence as this man's wife. That will zap her out of her own fog which falsely tells her he isn't really married and you don't exist.
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