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I had an affair and my husband is divorcing me

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I am a 41year old woman who is in the middle of a divorce. My husband has left me after i didnt end my affair when i was first caught.

Why do i do these things to begin with? I think some of it id loving attention. It made me feel young again. My husband is a good man and good provider. I think we just got a little bored with everyday life and disconnected a bit. He played in basketball leagues to get out of his rut and i dated other men behind hid back.

My affair ended when he exposed my idiot love interest and me at our work place. I have quit my job since this all happemed. Too little too late now. My hubby wont talk to me now. Only about our kids. We have 2 kids. I wish i could get him to talk to me. Even to yell at me. Its like he just went ice cold. I hate that what we had together is in trouble now.
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Don't worry about the threadjack Dave. I haven't been active as of late, nor has my beloved soon to be ex wifester.

It's never really the best feeling in the world to be betrayed. I've lived it.

I'm tired. There was a thread on here tonight on CWI where some WW's were giving their takes on how their husbands led them to have to cheat, or however they were spinning it. Although I was gagging while reading it, I just came to realize that the only person you can truly control is yourself and not to get so worked up about these things I can't control. Or at least try not to. Easier said than done obviously.

Hopefully I'll still have primary custody once the divorce is finalized, and I just want to be single regardless. Once the kids are of age to start living their own lives, I want to travel, conduct my life how I want and not have to deal with this nonsense again. That's what this whole thing has taught me.
 
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... I just came to realize that the only person you can truly control is yourself and not to get so worked up about these things I can't control. Or at least try not to. ....
Very wise Mal. Very wise. You're a good man.
 
#235 ·
Why not go to Malcom's profile and look at all the threads he started under statistics?
 
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