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Old 03-25-2013, 09:13 PM   #1 (permalink)
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my boyfriend of 8 yrs has signed up for online dating and a few sex sites. I see that as cheating he says he was just curious. I know he loves me and he takes care of me but how can I trust him? so my question is is cybercheating really cheating? thanks
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Yes, I'd say it is.
How would he feel to you setting up an online dating profile?

If you are uncomfortable with it, and you should be, he should cancel the account. If not, you may need to cancel the relationship.
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And he wants to become chat buddies why?

So he can wax poetic? So he can confide in a stranger? I'll guarantee you that his profile is asking to chat with single or married women who are "up for anything" and won't respond to granny-or motherly type females.

In short - yes it's cheating.
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Ann, how much time a week do the two of you spend together doing things that you both enjoy? I mean just the two of you with no one else involved?

How is your sex life?
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my boyfriend of 8 yrs has signed up for online dating and a few sex sites. I see that as cheating he says he was just curious. I know he loves me and he takes care of me but how can I trust him? so my question is is cybercheating really cheating? thanks
He is curious about what other women he can "date" besides you. Don't accept that Bull$%!t. The next thing you know he is loving somebody else and taking care of them. Hold up the STOP sign yourself or stand aside and watch the car wreck that will be your relationship.
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YES, its cheating
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Yes it's cheating.
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Old 03-25-2013, 09:44 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Ask yourself this: How would: "I was just curious" be seen if it were the answers to the following questions?

"Why did you have car thief tools in your possession?"
"Well, I was just curious."

How come you had some plastic explosives in your possession, along with the plans to the bank vault?"
"Well, I was just curious."

"How come you created accounts on cheating/dating websites?"
"Well, I was just curious."

I think we know the answer...
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Yes, it's cheating.
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Old 03-25-2013, 10:12 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Does it feel like cheating to you? He does not get to define it. If it feels like cheating, if you were not informed ahead of time that he would be doing this so you could make an informed decision about whether or not this would be acceptable to you (I assume it is not), if he hid it...it's cheating.
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Old 03-26-2013, 06:17 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Thanks to all of you!! He has cancelled all memberships. and promised not to do it again so we will see. Sex life is GREAT and we do alot of fun things together that we both enjoy. If i see it again im OUT!!
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