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Old 03-26-2013, 06:30 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Just a quick question. How do you view private threads. I've gained a lot of insight through posts and threads from various members before I joined. Many threads started public and turned private I assume. So, now that I'm a member with 20 posts how do I catch up on these threads? Ive tried searches and had no luck. Is it common practice to delete threads after a time here? Thx to all replys!
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Old 03-26-2013, 06:31 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Have to get 30 posts.
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Old 03-26-2013, 06:31 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I believe you need 30 posts.
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30 post and they send you the secret handshake and a decoder ring. Ok I lied about the handshake and ring. But at 30 post you can see all the threads and post attachments.
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30 posts to be able to see Private Forum threads. As far as deleting being common practice? No. If that were the case, there wouldn't be so many zombie threads resurrected from 2008, 2009, etc. Sometimes, posters don't want all that info left out there, so they delete. But unless something is spam or troll, basically, it doesn't get deleted.
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30 post and they send you the secret handshake and a decoder ring. Ok I lied about the handshake and ring. But at 30 post you can see all the threads and post attachments.
Hmmm...guess you weren't good enough for the ring.
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30 post and they send you the secret handshake and a decoder ring. Ok I lied about the handshake and ring. But at 30 post you can see all the threads and post attachments.
They told me I had to send in my birth certificate and finger prints!
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Or you could become a forum supporter -

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Old 03-26-2013, 07:07 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Ah, thx for all the quick replys, you guys are on top of things here lol
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Old 03-26-2013, 07:08 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Gonna bump my thread here, almost to 30
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Old 03-26-2013, 07:11 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Anyone with insight into being banned? Really enjoyed reading Posts by Morituri and a few others which I've noticed are now banned...
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Old 03-26-2013, 07:12 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Or maybe it was Warlock, not sure
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Old 03-26-2013, 07:19 PM   #13 (permalink)
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read the forum rules - breaking = ban

breaking essentially = belittling another poster's advice or being outrageously disrespectful to an OP

calling someone a troll is belittling - there's a red triangle at the bottom left of each post. That is used for reporting the author of that post to the MODs. If no no reports the post then it's unlikely to lead to a ban unless the mods happen upon the post.

That's why some posts seem outrageous and the poster is not banned = while a seemingly lesser infraction (that is reported) leads to a ban.

The mods review reported posts for infractions.

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Anyone with insight into being banned? Really enjoyed reading Posts by Morituri and a few others which I've noticed are now banned...
It is typically when someone does not play nice. One of my good friends got banned a while ago, someone really pushed his button on an issue. I really miss him but frankly what he said was over the top and thus he got banned.
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Old 03-26-2013, 07:30 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Gotcha, thx again for the quick responses
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