Long story short:
Me: 34
her: 30
My original posting: http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/64546-new-here-my-story.html
Total relationship length: 4.5 years
Married less than a year.
After about a year of marriage, she announced she wanted out. Unhappy, etc. Found out she had be involved in at least a EA with a MM in a different state. Had been going on prior to me proposing and all thru the marriage. Divorce was final in Dec 12. Only married for that short year. I treated her great, but apparently she couldn't control herself.
I haven't had communication with her since January. Just the other day, out of the blue she emails that she's going to be in town and wants to know if I want to get dinner.
I know she's still in contact with MM. I doubt she wants to get back together, nor would I.
My brain says: F her! No dinner. She can rot in hell.
My heart says: I still love her and see this as a possiblity to get some answers of which I never got.
I basically found out all this thru her cell phone and all the calling going on through the past two years to MM. She even emailed him on our honeymoon how much she missed him.
She rug swept him of course and said JUST FRIENDs. I'm not an idiot.
THoughts?
Me: 34
her: 30
My original posting: http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/64546-new-here-my-story.html
Total relationship length: 4.5 years
Married less than a year.
After about a year of marriage, she announced she wanted out. Unhappy, etc. Found out she had be involved in at least a EA with a MM in a different state. Had been going on prior to me proposing and all thru the marriage. Divorce was final in Dec 12. Only married for that short year. I treated her great, but apparently she couldn't control herself.
I haven't had communication with her since January. Just the other day, out of the blue she emails that she's going to be in town and wants to know if I want to get dinner.
I know she's still in contact with MM. I doubt she wants to get back together, nor would I.
My brain says: F her! No dinner. She can rot in hell.
My heart says: I still love her and see this as a possiblity to get some answers of which I never got.
I basically found out all this thru her cell phone and all the calling going on through the past two years to MM. She even emailed him on our honeymoon how much she missed him.
She rug swept him of course and said JUST FRIENDs. I'm not an idiot.
THoughts?