Re: How to just stop caring what he's up to
We are in separate houses, but see each other very often due to our kids' extracurricular schedules. We get along well and are still very close friends. And we do love one another. But he's not willing to do what it takes to gain control of his sex addiction, and I can't take the pain of being married to him anymore. In fact I feel like he'd be perfectly happy to stay married but separated indefinitely (of course he would... cake eating at its finest).
I have consulted an attorney, but haven't filed papers yet. That's obviously the next step, but am having a hard time just doing it. I have actually met a few nice men and I have enjoyed that fun feeling of getting to know someone new and feel attractive again.
But I miss my husband. I know it will go away in time, but some days are sure worse than others.