Re: Emotional Affair - HELP!
All our assets, what few there are, are shared. I am hopeful a good counselor will help her sort this out.
I share your thoughts about the guy, if he were truly honorable, this would never have happened. If she chose him, there would be more hurt for her later, of that I am sure.
I know she is just confused. I have known her for 17 years, we shared every thought with each other for most of those years. To our friends, we were role models. Family members have chosen us to take their kids if something were to happen to them. This is not her. I know I have some blame in this, too.
I Love Her still and would forgive, forget and move on immediately if given the chance. But like Amp said, this is going to be a long process and my need for immediate resolution is not going to benefit either of us.
I really would like to know what a counselor will do with this, how they will approach it. I have been pushing for a Christian based counselor but she is the one that is going to pick. Having never been in this situation, I don't know if they will tell her to pursue her fantasy or if they will be family-based and try to steer her back to me. Any insight into this would sure be helpful.