Here's what I did to make my wife cheat...
I played video games.. about two hours a night, when she is watching tv and i'm sitting beside her on the couch... also talking about the television show, because I'm listening to it.
She was jealous of the avatar I was controlling, it was a female character. I also played quite a bit the last few years since she was out shopping so much.
I never took her anywhere.. while she was with her OM, I took her to Florida four times.. we always went out to eat, went shopping together, took day trips to cape cod etc.. Went for walks.. I guess what she meant was I never took her to Hawaii? Or that she wanted me to take her places, but with some other guy and then I would leave.. not sure... She went with him for walks in the woods.
I never helped with the kids... I always did stuff with my kids, took my son and daughters to ball games and dance.. Never missed a recital, or a game.. Always played catch, blocks, cars, dolls... Spent all weekend at travel games. I'm very close to my children.. She never went to any of my sons basketball games, a few baseball games.. was too busy shopping.
She felt I was too smart for her... I Brought home lots of money to buy a big house, two nice cars.. I got my wife a Honda Pilot, because that's what she wanted. Live on a dead end street, pond in back, porch, nice sounds at night.. privacy. She brought him here one day after work, when I took the kids to the amusement park by myself. He could never afford a house like this one, I bet he enjoyed his time here.
Never helped out around the house.. I tried to make dinner, but she didn't like my cooking even though I'm probably a better cook than she is, so I let her make meals.. I did the yardwork, painted the house, fix stuff, drive kids places, wash stuff, do dishes, laundry and vaccum... I guess I should have also washed and waxed the floor, I never did that. I wonder how helfpul OM was around his house.. he probably told her he did it all, cooking, cleaning AND windows.
She felt old... I always told her how beautiful she looked, how nice she smelled.. how much I adore her.. never stopped. If I could choose between a Victorias secret model or her, I'd choose her every time and I made that clear. She didn't want to hear it from me, she wanted another guy to validate it for her. We had a healthy sex life.. made love mornings and nights, some weeks more than others, but 3 to 6 times a week average, always brought the passion although hers seemed to fade a bit for a few years.. probably thinking about shopping while I was focused on how lucky I was to have such a beautiful woman beneath me.
Now am I perfect? Hell no.. I have flaws.. I can't read minds, and when my wife pretends to be happy, but is dying inside, I have no idea if she doesn't tell me. I'm trusting, and I think that because I've been able to avoid putting myself in situations that might lead me to temptation, I've assumed she's done the same. I think when I feel such love, that she must know I feel it.. I think that when I get her flowers, and tell her I love her, she'll believe me.