Re: Wife EA with lesbian woman
No woman proclaim to her husband she's in love with someone else (no matter the gender) unless she already got a taste of the third part.
100 % garantee.
She's just pushing you to file.
It's what it is. She goes NC with this woman... or divorce.
Then, after she go past the withdrawal you can try to find out a way to give a shot at the marriage (of course she has her say too).
So the advice is the same given to any other betrayed spouse.
Full transparence on comunication devices and whereabouts
Complete discosure, to your satistaction.
___ insert here any other of your bare minimum contidtion to stop you from filing divorce (STD tests, NC with toxic influences... IC, MC, you name it).
Just know you don't have a marriage. Knock her off the fence. Be very clear about everything.
BTW, IC, MC is a waste unless she's NC with OW. It's like going to AA mettings comlpetely drunk or with a bottle in the pocket.
Sorry man, it's what it is.
Mal de muchos, consuelo de tontos