10-15-2009, 12:58 PM
Join Date: Sep 2009
| | Re: 2 months since D day
Roundtable, I understand your pain, and am sorry you have had to endure all this. No one is perfect, since we are only mortal human beings. I am sure you are aware, you cannot make someone love you. That is something everyone has to deal with in any relationship. If it was not meant to be, then it will likely end.
All you can do is have patience and decide what is best for you. The rest is out of your control, unfortunately. For now, you need to focus on yourself, and what you can control. (Obviously, it is yourself) If you have issues, deal with them first. Consult with a therapist, then determine if your marriage can be saved.
If it is worth it, hang in there, if not, work on your own issues, and move on into a better environment. I wish you the best!