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Old 10-22-2009, 10:17 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Yesterday I got to thinking about my husbands facebook account and other forums that he talks in that I have passwords to and when I found out about the EA I blocked the OW so he couldn't know when she was online I got to thinking that is silly that if he truly wanted to talk to her he would so I unblocked his accounts. When I went home to tell him that I had unblocked his accounts he informed me that one of his new male friends had sent him a text asking if he or his wife cared if he sent text with nude pix and just funny text my hubby had already text him back saying that he didn't want any of this crazy text. He informed me he didn't think I would want that sent to him. It made me feel so happy that he was thinking this way. I then informed him that I had taken off the blocks and his account he asked why I told him I couldn't stop him if he really wanted to talk to the OW or her best friend he told me he didn't want to tal to the OW and he had thought if asking her best friend a ? online but said he didn't because he didn't want me upset. Could it be that he really loves me and wants us to work out?
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Old 10-22-2009, 10:25 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Its a start, as added net purchase a trace program as assurance.

Then when you review it secretly you can be happy with further assurance or otherwise.

Keep the guard up but keep the love flowing.
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Old 10-22-2009, 05:21 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Very good sign that he is taking your feelings into account before acting. These are things he may not have seen any issue with personally but is now more aware he must also take your feelings into account. Nice update
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Old 10-27-2009, 02:00 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I am happy for you, as this seem to be a positive in a previously negative situation. (((HUGS))) and best wishes to you!
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