11-26-2009, 05:12 AM
Join Date: Jun 2009
| | Re: Is he cheating on me?
Originally Posted by Sven
You need a LAWYER. He doesn't know what *****y is yet. Since you told him to stop and he didn't, drop the hammer on him. Get a divorce attorney and tell him he's gone if he continues one more day.
I don't know how many times I told him this. Everytime we fight, I told him that it's better that if we got divorce but he always threat me that he will take my son away and I can't let that to happen. Things are complicated between us. Even though he always threat me that he will divorce me but he never does.
I know that I am such a weak person. I am not brave enough to take an action. I was thinking to get away from him many times but I didn't have enough courage to leave him. Evertime I made my mind about leaving him, I always thought about who is going to take care of him when I am gone, who is going to cook for him, wash his clothes since all this time I am the one who take care of everything. I just couldn't imagine how he would be like if I am not here with him but at the same time I couldn't live like this. It's not only because he is talking to another girls but also the way he treats me. I feel like I failed as a wife and it really breaks my heart to realize this.