Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: Northern California
Re: If you were wiling to try to forgive, would you need to know everything first?
BaT, I agree with Salt, why can't you see the phone records. If there is nothing to hide, then there is nothing to hide. Your questions can be answered quickly. She is giving you the song in dance. So she using or manipulating the counselors information in to not giving you the info, because IMHO she be caught "red handed" and she knows it. If I had to prove my innocence and this was the only way to do it then "BOOM" here honey here are the phone records to show you I am loyal. Very simple. I can't tell you if she is unfaithful, but what I can tell you is that she is following the script, no two ways about it. I'm sorry "what's done is done" sounds like to me the deed has been done. You busted her, tell me everything or I'm gone. I would be gone anyway, I could never trust her or would want to be physical with her ever. The marriage has been tainted in the worst way. Good luck to you.