Re: How do they live with themselves?
SomedayDig - No, they came to him. How do I know? I confronted all three of them after their A was exposed and they all confirmed it. No big deal - just sex they said. Maybe open marriage isn't what it's called. I don't really know. They have a marriage where the guy can't perform well and the wife is somewhat of a nympho. The husband allows her to be with whoever she wants, but he has to know about it. No secrets. As long as he knows, it's okay. In the case of my STBX, the man was involved too and there was 3-way sex. STBX told me all about it, as did they when I asked. The man will hire men to give his wife gang bangs and they go to sex clubs. They brag about it. I'm sorry if you don't believe me or whatever your problems are with it, but it's true and they effectively all 3 ended my marriage. I never wanted to know people could be so cold. I found out anyway. Welcome to the world.
Last edited by Oregon Rose; 07-01-2013 at 01:48 PM.