Re: husband cheated with best friend
I know this is fresh in your mind. So that sucks.
But when people are 19 years old, just becuase they have a piece of paper saying they are married, does not make them smart or any more mature than any other 19 year old on planet earth.
And when you put bring a single woman into your home, there is a huge probablilty she will make a move on your man... That's just the nature of things.
So, 19 year old man (inherintly sexual, impulsive and not future oriented) + woman in home who has a biological need to compete with you, mix this stew together and 9/10 times the outcome is what occured in your situation.
Now, compare a dumb choice at the age of 19 to 20+ years of what he has done and accomplished as a husband , father?, and a man....
Who is your husband? Is he a bad person or did he get caught up in a situation? If he's a bad person then by all means divorce him... If he's a good husband and just got cuaght up in something stupid, you should forgive him.