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Old 07-06-2013, 01:23 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Hi Im single and unfortunately in relationship with a married woman for last 4 months..after realizing i`m getting bit emotional about her and have strong doubt hat she`s using me i wanted to quit i told that to her and avoided her phone calls mails and chats..things were run bit cold afterwards.. and were working fine for me she keep on calling me occasionally but i didn`t answered..yesterday i was drunk and all of a sudden i replied her chat..and again out of the blue i get in to an emotional level talking and said i love her..... ..Now after my hangover i realized the trouble i`ve caused ....i want to get rid of her and RUN In between she once extended her willingness to stay friends...truth is i`ve a soft corner for her but i don`t wanna make things more complicated I`m sure she`s gonna call me based on the boost from yesterday and i don`t have an excuse..It would be embarrassing to not attending her call again please help..
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Just stop all contact with her. Delete her phone number, her email address, etc. Block her phone number on your cell.

You have 100% control over ending all contact with her. You are a grown man right?

Or you could tell her husband. After he’s done with you, then maybe you will realize how easy it is to block her phone number.
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Just stop all contact with her. Delete her phone number, her email address, etc. Block her phone number on your cell.

You have 100% control over ending all contact with her. You are a grown man right?

Or you could tell her husband. After he’s done with you, then maybe you will realize how easy it is to block her phone number.
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OP, this is a non issue stop bawling around, be a man and dump her.
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Old 07-06-2013, 02:37 AM   #4 (permalink)
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You do realize that she has a H, and possibly children at home, that she is cheating on---which makes you a participant, in Home Wrecking

It matters not what she says, about what goes on in her life---most cheaters, justify, their A's, and in many instances, the justification is BS

You need to just plain let the woman know, you are done with her, and if she wants to know why---tell her you do not participate in the destruction of mge/the wreckage of the lives of innocent kids, and same for H-------tell her---you are deleting her, and for her to go back to her H
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Why don't you call and tell her husband?
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Old 07-06-2013, 05:41 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Is this for real?

OP, ummmm, don't answer the phone and stop drinking. If she is a stalker, threaten to tell her husband or, better yet, tell him yourself.



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Old 07-06-2013, 06:13 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Stop screwing with another man's life!!

What the h**l is wrong with you?

Imagine what its gonna feel like one day if your married and some other POS is doing this to your life and family.

You should tell the H and offer an apology for your extremely insulting behavior.

If you don't, or even worse continue this crap, I hope he completely wrecks you in any way he can for partnering with his WW to destroy his life.

You will deserve everything he does.
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Old 07-06-2013, 06:30 AM   #8 (permalink)
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She IS using you. She lies and manipulates you too! She is not married to you, she's married to her husband. If she hasn't left him already, she never will.

Stop sleeping with married women. Find a single woman. The best thing for you to do is tell her husband ASAP. Then get yourself straightened out, so you choose a single woman next time.
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Old 07-06-2013, 06:35 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Are you serious man.

Hell. I used to avoid my mother calls, bill collectors calls, my bosses calls. It is not that hard.

You have enough common sense to come here with your known issue and state you know what you need to do. Well the feedback you will get here will be no different than what you already said you should do.

Quit helping to **** up another mans life and be a man.

Just think about when you finally get married. Put yourself in that situation.
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Be a man and tell her husband.

That will solve your problem, plus it's the Right Thing To Do.
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Hi Im single and unfortunately in relationship with a married woman for last 4 months..after realizing i`m getting bit emotional about her and have strong doubt hat she`s using me i wanted to quit i told that to her and avoided her phone calls mails and chats..things were run bit cold afterwards.. and were working fine for me she keep on calling me occasionally but i didn`t answered..yesterday i was drunk and all of a sudden i replied her chat..and again out of the blue i get in to an emotional level talking and said i love her..... ..Now after my hangover i realized the trouble i`ve caused ....i want to get rid of her and RUN In between she once extended her willingness to stay friends...truth is i`ve a soft corner for her but i don`t wanna make things more complicated I`m sure she`s gonna call me based on the boost from yesterday and i don`t have an excuse..It would be embarrassing to not attending her call again please help..
OK, TAM people.....

Give me a T ("TTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT")
Give me an R ("RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR")
Give me an O ("OOOOOOOOOOOOOOO")
Give me an L ("LLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL")
Give another L ("LLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL")

Now, what's that spell.........
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OK, TAM people.....

Give me a T ("TTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT")
Give me an R ("RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR")
Give me an O ("OOOOOOOOOOOOOOO")
Give me an L ("LLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL")
Give another L ("LLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL")

Now, what's that spell.........
I agree, but if it isn't he might need help. If it is, he just got a load of replies that a troll would expect in any case...
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Old 07-06-2013, 10:39 AM   #13 (permalink)
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The only answer here, where everyone can win is if

The OP tells the woman's husband about the affair. Fully and completely.

That way the husband can dump her cheating worthless aXX in the street and begin working on upgrading.

And if this is a troll thread, it will create wonderful drama to report back with.

Either way telling the husband is the way to go!
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Hi Im single and unfortunately in relationship with a married woman for last 4 months..after realizing i`m getting bit emotional about her and have strong doubt hat she`s using me i wanted to quit i told that to her and avoided her phone calls mails and chats..things were run bit cold afterwards.. and were working fine for me she keep on calling me occasionally but i didn`t answered..yesterday i was drunk and all of a sudden i replied her chat..and again out of the blue i get in to an emotional level talking and said i love her..... ..Now after my hangover i realized the trouble i`ve caused ....i want to get rid of her and RUN In between she once extended her willingness to stay friends...truth is i`ve a soft corner for her but i don`t wanna make things more complicated I`m sure she`s gonna call me based on the boost from yesterday and i don`t have an excuse..It would be embarrassing to not attending her call again please help..
Picture his fist slamming repeatedly into your unprotected face....This may give you the resolve to stop scre_wing his wife....

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Picture his fist slamming repeatedly into your unprotected face...
Why is the betrayed spouse always assumed to be bigger and stronger and a better fighter than the other man?

Why is the other man the one who is supposed to get beat up when the cheating spouse is the one breaking the marital vows and allowing some other guy to screw her?
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