12-11-2009, 12:04 PM
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Cleveland, OH
| | Re: Should I cheat too?
Is that a becoming way for Alyssa's mommy to conduct herself?
What would you say to your daughter, that it's okay to be a cheater, to ruin another woman's marriage, to betray her daddy like that?
Yes, he betrayed you BEFORE MARRIAGE, while that really sucks, you now have this marriage and being a parent to deal with and cheating on that is not going to help you feel better about yourself or feel like you are living up to the type of mother that your little girl deserves to have.
If you can't forgive your husband and learn how to build trust in him, then you need to seriously consider ending the marriage. If you don't want to end the marriage, then put your commitment into overcoming this issue, without turning into a cheater yourself.