12-10-2009, 07:30 PM
Join Date: Dec 2009
| | Looking at escort sites--is he cheating? UPDATE
Original story is below. So he used some lame story about video vixens on VH1, and how in the documentary it talked about how the industry used the girls and then they became *****s on the internet. The zip codes and city search were to see if there were any near hear. OKAY, so somehow I'm supposed to believe that when the searches were for escorts, escorts in our city, and then escorts in our zip code, including clicking on companies that were on a map. REALLY?! He keeps trying to make the argument about everything but what it really is and how he's not going to tell me what I want to hear---okay I really don't want to hear that you're a selfish cheater with an obvious problem, but I feel that I am owed the truth--and he is not changing his story. And it's obviously not bothering him that I am upset, because he is still out doing whatever he wants and not dealing with it. I don't want to be a nag, but I don't want this swept under the rug.
Okay, so here's the deal. I was on his computer the other day using it to take a test, and when I went into google found that he had been searching for escorts in our area. I pulled up the history, and there were searches for our city and our zip code, and profiles of lots of women, but I didn't see where he had clicked on any of them to email them or anything. He says he didn't do anything. Do I believe him? Also, a year ago while he was working out of town, there were weird numbers in his phone that when I googled them, they were escorts on the same backpage site, but for the area where he was working. At that time, he said that he was letting someone else use his phone, and had just gotten it back from them, and didn't know who those people were. I eventually let it go, but now that I've found it here he was obviously lying back then too. Should I kick him out? This is really tearing me to pieces, but I don't think it's okay even if all he did was look.
Last edited by Goodwoman; 12-13-2009 at 10:10 AM.