Re: I cheated, husband left, need guidance to prove I'm sorry
Please, they were both WS
He had EA (no PA that we know of) and she had PA.
His wife was depressed and instead of paying attention to her he found a new interesting trouble-free coworker to "innocently" chat with. Texting all the time and kept his phone close to him, if that's not a strong sign of EA then i don't know what else
She had PA because someone else paid attention to her (still not an excuse). Now that he had legal excuse to bolt he used it well
I'm not excusing her behavior but i know what it's like to be in her shoes. When stbxh started to text OW i was practically a ghost in the house. Well not a ghost, but a maid and babysitter. I cleaned the house,took care of the kids,washed his clothes,cooked the meal and that's it. He didn't even give me a peck at the cheek or notice my hair color change (wasn't a subtle one, blonde to red). Thank you or compliment ? Haha, none of that. I was sinking into depression while he sunk to OW's vagina
Before i found out that he had PA i met a friend and he was there for me.Stbxh noticed and didn't care one bit ! We talked a lot but one evening when we were in a car and he put his hand on my thigh i knew i had to stop talking to him. Thank God my brain was still working. I guess i'm just not "caught up in the moment" kind of person, that's just weak
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Last edited by ire8179; 07-22-2014 at 12:51 AM.